The egg 2.0
- Locked due to inactivity on Feb 14, '21 3:54am
Thread Topic: The egg 2.0
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Cats are the best, they're always there and will hang out with me when my irl friends won't. That's why I prefer staying at home with my cats rather than go places with the popular kids at school and feel trapped and see my friends hanging out ignoring the fact that I was talking about wanting to be included in the group more last year
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Hahahaha, I shouldn't say such stupid things
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It's not stupid! Eggaly, you are one of the best friends I've ever known and they should see that.
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Thanks they don't really pay attention to me and Everytime I talk around them I can tell they're annoyed
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Would you like advice? It's okay if you don't, but I wanted to ask before unloading, lol
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Cousin, get better friends. I know it may be difficult as a shy kid, but it will be better afterwards, and I’m speaking from experience.
And if there’s a new kid, welcome them to the school and hang out with them. -
Sure tell me your advice and cousin literally no one but them like things I like, and I already went through hell just trying to find out where to sit last year, I don't want to have to do that again
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Well I actually didn’t find my group of friends until there was a new girl in late seventh grade so yee it took me a while.
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If you really enjoy the friend group, I'd try to talk to some of them one on one and discuss your feelings. If they're genuinely good friends, they won't mind reassuring you and taking the steps to be better at hanging out with you or listening to you.
If they flat out refuse, or make fun of you, or don't make any attempts to be better, I'd leave the group. It may be lonely, and you'll have to work to meet new people, but it's better than being with a group that doesn't care about you. And I mean that. I went through high school with very few friends, but finding the ones who actually cared were worth the months alone. -
I've talked to one of them last year with some of my closest friends in that group and the reason I talked to them in the first place and she said she wanted to include me but didn't know how Because I was so quiet
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Do you like being with people, even if you don't talk much? I'd tell her that, as it'll make her feel more comfortable inviting you even if you're just there to vibe.
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I like being around them it's just they don't let me say anything and they don't really take time to know me like they do with the other people who join the group and I already told her I enjoy being around them because they're funny and all but I'll say something they laugh then they ignore me again
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It seems like the group isn't good, but maybe the one girl is? Have you tried asking her to hang out w/you alone?
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No, her and the group have been together for years, truth be told it wasn't that bad when I was sitting with just the girls in the group but when we add my friends boyfriend they seem to ignore me and act like I'm more of an annoyance
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Partners in high school are huge friend group destroyers. Even if they aren't super dramatic, they drain the group of energy. :( I am SO sorry to hear that's the case with your friend group.
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