Hello hello!
- Locked by Dark22978 on May 31, '20 10:29amReason: Owner's request.
Thread Topic: Hello hello!
-
Alright! Bye Jill!
-
I have had food đź‘Ś
-
I feel like s---, and I'm sure people are going to barge into my thread and beat me up about it, today.
-
Why are people going to beat you up??
-
I did something that I thought was a good idea, but in hindsight, it was really stupid. Yesterday, I made an alt account, and people were under the impression he was my boyfriend. I thought this would be a good way for me to manage MYSELF. I thought it'd help me love myself better, but then it dawned on me that I might hurt other people and look like a fraud.
-
CAN I GET A LINK TO DISCORD?
-
I didn't see that, but the fact that you owned up to it right away is definitely the right move.
Why? -
I'll be on and off all day. Even if you don't see me posting, I'm probably lurking.
-
Alright.
I'll just stay in my sad thread today. -
Hi. Alt account
-
I wanted to articulate this last night but couldn't. I am fully aware that your post was an attempt to get a rise out of me, but I will entertain your late night thoughts anyway.
I did give you forgiveness and a second chance. When I first returned, you spoke to me as if the past had never happened. So I returned that energy. I treated you like I treat everyone else that I regard my friend. You took that kindness and respect and spat it back in my face. I also attempted to speak to you to learn why you kept doing the things you were doing. Even after that discussion, you continued to post about me and others, as if that connection didn't occur. I know it wasn't exactly deep, but it was an obvious attempt to give you the chance to speak your mind; once again— you blew it.
You've made zero attempts to communicate maturely with me, or anybody else that you've posted about. You ask for respect but give none. Why, then, do I owe you further patience and forgiveness? Why do I have some unwritten obligation to give you multiple chances when you have proven you do not care about them even when I DO attempt? I do not owe you, or anyone who has done me wrong, anything. And you have made it very clear you hold the same belief, because despite several attempts on my behalf to understand you, you have responded with memes, insults, and harassment instead of a serious discussion.
I will refrain from commenting on outside discussions regarding you from here on out, but that is about as far as my respect for you goes. You can believe I whatever you'd like, but do understand I will not allow you to spread misinformation when you know very well that I gave you a genuine attempt and you decided you didn't care for it.
And let me make this very clear: I do not need your misbehavior to "make myself look better." My reputation does not revolve around you, or the drama you've caused. It revolves around me and my actions. I openly admit my mistakes to everyone. Does that make me perfect or flawless? No. I will never be as good or pure as half of the people here. But that is why I make great effort to accept (most) criticism given to me. I want to learn how to "human". I want to learn how to be a better friend. And I will continue to strive to do so, regardless of what you or anyone else believes. -
Who is this directed to?
-
Drew. I may need to repost it if we make this thread go to the next page, just to ensure she sees it.
-
Drew— I wanted to articulate this last night, but couldn't. I am fully aware that your post was an attempt to get a rise out of me, but I will entertain your late night thoughts anyway.
I did give you forgiveness and a second chance. When I first returned, you spoke to me as if the past had never happened. So I returned that energy. I treated you like I treat everyone else that I regard my friend. You took that kindness and respect and spat it back in my face. I also attempted to speak to you to learn why you kept doing the things you were doing. Even after that discussion, you continued to post about me and others, as if that connection didn't occur. I know it wasn't exactly deep, but it was an obvious attempt to give you the chance to speak your mind; once again— you blew it.
You've made zero attempts to communicate maturely with me, or anybody else that you've posted about. You ask for respect but give none. Why, then, do I owe you further patience and forgiveness? Why do I have some unwritten obligation to give you multiple chances when you have proven you do not care about them even when I DO attempt? I do not owe you, or anyone who has done me wrong, anything. And you have made it very clear you hold the same belief, because despite several attempts on my behalf to understand you, you have responded with memes, insults, and harassment instead of a serious discussion.
I will refrain from commenting on outside discussions regarding you from here on out, but that is about as far as my respect for you goes. You can believe whatever you'd like, but do understand I will not allow you to spread misinformation when you know very well that I gave you a genuine attempt and you decided you didn't care for it.
And let me make this very clear: I do not need your misbehavior to "make myself look better." My reputation does not revolve around you, or the drama you've caused. It revolves around me and my actions. I openly admit my mistakes to everyone. Does that make me perfect or flawless? No. I will never be as good or pure as half of the people here. But that is why I make great effort to accept (most) criticism given to me. I want to learn how to "human". I want to learn how to be a better friend. And I will continue to strive to do so, regardless of what you or anyone else believes. -
Walking is so exhausting
This thread is locked, therefore no new posts can be made.
