Charity's Castle
- Locked due to inactivity on Feb 17, '18 3:54am
Thread Topic: Charity's Castle
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money money money
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..I kept all of my stuff, too. I don't use it but I like remembering what friendship she had with me before she left. I don't think it's fair for us to feel forced to toss it all away.
And honestly I'd be upset if she threw that Daryl Dixon bracelet out the door, or my Cat Noir!Fang art, or even that yin yang whale charm I made for her. Even if she decided she didn't want me as a friend that stuff has value, especially the bracelet that I bought.
Overall I think it's sad that friendships are being cast aside because everyone wants [our] wholehearted attention and devotion. And it's even more sad [we] have that mindset. I would never want my friends to feel pressured into spending every second with me. If they want another friend IRL, go for it. If they want to have a friend group I'm not involved in, go for it. [We] shouldn't put a leash on our friends. As long as they're still there when we message them, that's their right to choose to have those friendships. At least, that's what I think. -
this isnt about attention or devotion.
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Then do explain what it's all about. Tell me how forcing someone to "choose" their best friend isn't about devotion, isn't about attention. Because to me that's what it sounds like. Telling someone they can't have a friend IRL sounds like jealousy, and from what you & Andi are making it sound like, Rosio wanted Andi to CHOOSE between a friend that lived with Andi over herself. That means Rosio wanted Andi's wholehearted devotion, or her attention. If it was a different matter then do correct me but that's all it looks like right now. :/
And as it is I don't really care what the issue is, I was meaning to make a comment on keeping items that were purchased, not the situation I'm not involved in -
fourth sentence sounds dumb
*Rosio wanted Andi to choose between her IRL friend or her -
i never said she didnt wanted her to have a friend irl. anyone can have a friend irl.
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then what's this bs about "choosing"? as far as I'm aware from what I've read, rosio asked andi to choose between her and someone who was a friend of hers irl. when andi refused to choose a friend, rosio got upset and ended the friendship.
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That's not true.
So how about we drop this? -
I'll drop it if Charity wants to. Not if you want to.
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You said it yourself. This doesn't involve you.
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Doesn't mean you have to dive in to the convo.
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You don't even like Charity. You do nothing but insult her. No need to stalk her thread
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I'm not diving in. I'm ending it.
Funny, you don't like me, but you stalk my thread? -
You're getting involved in a question/discussion that had TWO points. If Charity didn't want to tell me about anything/discuss what I mentioned, she can tell me herself. You aren't her girlfriend anymore. Stop acting like you need to keep me away from her. And Rosio would tell me herself if she didn't want me to ask questions, so stop acting like you need to boss everyone around when they choose to talk about something.
When someone points something out to me, I check it, yeah. Also you sometimes forget to hit "hide from recent posts"
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