The Coral Reef
Thread Topic: The Coral Reef
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Sticking with this one. C:
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hey the third post represents me :o
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Oh, s---. It does. 0:
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I know the both of you care, but learn to let go. Don't message her, don't follow her.. Just focus on yourselves. Thanks.
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It is possible to move on.
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Leaving.
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You guys fight a lot because you're not realizing that none of are reconcilable. You can say you changed, but that doesn't prove anything. You have to show the other that you did. Show effort.
As much as I hate both of you, I have to say that you didn't give her enough time to soak in everything. You bothered her, provoked her, and made things worse. It was really your own fault for forgetting the type of person she is.
I calmed her down last night for you so she'd talk to you. I don't know who ruined that this morning, but s---, mate. It wasn't easy. I love her and all, but she's one stubborn girl. You guys should know that by now. You've known her for years.
I helped her realize that it wasn't worth losing someone. I'm not saying this to get a "thank you", either. I'm saying this because as much as I think both of you are terrible for her, I don't like seeing her like this. I'd rather see her happy, and if someone is capable of doing so, they should stick around.
I still very much hate both of you.
I'm posting it now because I have work in a few. -
PS: I know you told me to stay quiet, but I hate seeing you angry and upset. If you're going to get furious with me, please tell me when I get off.
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See ya.
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Take a royal f--- off.
A friend isn't supposed to get angry when their friends decide to be a part of a relationship. They aren't supposed to blame you for their problems, and post about it online publicly, and ignore the overall point to pick on something small. A friend isn't supposed to jump with guns firing before you've had a chance to really talk to them about your decision(s). We did change. But she didn't and I'm not sitting on it again.
She shouldn't HAVE to soak in anything. I told my best friends what happened, two of who are very close to me and I spent practically all of my time with, and they didn't disappear for 24 hours. They didn't start snapping at me like a rabid dog about my decision. They didn't get cocky and rude and cold about it. Especially when whatever convo she had with other people was never brought to my face. As I told her, which I'm sure she told you, I wouldn't have accepted Andi's offer as readily as I did if I had any idea it would affect Rosio. Unfortunately for her, she was off being mad at something else and wasn't around when I made the choice. If I had known it would make her jealous, or angry, or however she's feeling? I would have sat down and talked to her about it- civilized, of course. Because that's what friends do. But she wasn't around, and frankly, I don't believe I have to ask my friends for consent before doing what I think is right. We gave her time even after she bailed without saying "I don't want to talk to you two right now" and she took that time to post about us and throw her hands up without even giving us a second to breathe.
She didn't talk to me. She complained she needed to sleep after sending one message. Telling us that she wasn't going to explicitly break us off, but that we weren't important to her. Just because we're dating. "I'm not going to talk to both of you as much anymore." What kind of a friend does that? We told her because we trusted her and she blew up instead of being civilized about the matter. She basically cut us off without giving us a chance. Like, okay? I had exams, I was stressed out, but I spent my free time thinking about her. I care about her, as you know. I typed a meaningful, calm message, telling her that I'd like for her to see it in our point of view. That this matter confused me because we didn't treat her differently, and that she's assuming we'll treat her differently because we're dating.
Oh, and on that note? I spent an hour thinking of what to say, because I wanted to be as precise and calm as I could be while trying not to break out sobbing in front of my junior & senior peers. I made it as short as I could because I know she doesn't like reading paragraphs. And all she could focus on was the fact that I brought up your stupid name. She pressed me as to why I said your name and ignored... Everything else. Which lead me to the conclusion that our friendship, the one she claims she wanted to keep, meant bulls--- to her. She was so focused on defending you when I didn't even insult you that she ignored the overall point, which was that I wanted her to calm down and read the situation in a different light.
She obviously hasn't realized that this isn't worth losing someone. If she didn't want to lose us, she would have, I dunno.. TALKED TO US? She would have ignored my comment about you (I was using you as an example from her own words which she didn't understand) and she would have said something like "Okay. I'm mad and I don't want to discuss this right now, but I'll consider it." not "why did you mention carl?" "lmao you're allllways right." So she can lose us. I knew what i was getting into when I agreed that I could handle her, but this is beyond me. No friend would get this mad over someone dating. No friend would jeopardize people worth their time over something this petty. And no friend would be emotionless to seeing how f---ed up they left us. She can post on Instagram, she can post on here, but when we point out she's not the only one hurting she ignores it.
I don't plan to thank you, ever. You've done f---ed up s--- too, like blocking her to "see how it felt." I can't believe of all of the people she's kept around that it was you.
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