Vanilla thread.
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Thread Topic: Vanilla thread.
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Okay so two years ago I met this boy, and we are great friends now but I still like him a lot.
a few months ago I met another boy, we are great friends too, but I am having trouble with his new girlfriend. You know what I mean right?
two months ago I met yet another, I really like him and we are friends as well. But he scooped up a girlfriend
last month. I have been put under the roof because of her.
Well as I would only ever be friends with any of them, I still am angered with the ones who have girlfriends now.
I have come to realize that although I love c1, I only ever want to friends with him and like we're we are at. In fact it doesn't even bother me when he gets a girlfriend. (Probably because he dumps them in a few weeks anyways). Also his sister is my best friend in the whole world. which makes things difficult.
C2 is a great friend as well, I don't ant to be his gf either but I just wish he wouldn't put me under the reins for his new girlfriend.
C3, we are friends and we get along fine, but because we go to the same school it makes life difficult. He is dating a younger girl now and they are always spending time together. In fact, I only ever get to talk to him when we run in PE, Or as I pass his bus on my way home. It frustrates me that I can't spend time with him, he is one of my few friends at school and I don't talk to the resT.
These are my thought son the matters. Any feedback would be great -
Boy advise. Okay, *taps pencil to my chin* hmm. I will try but my answer is going to be dumb.
Well with the first boy, I think you should just stay friends. Especially since he is your bffs brother.
And with c2, I can totally relate. You can be his friends still though. Just tell him what is bothering you. (Perferably when his gf isn't around)
C3. Ouch! That's a tough spot to be in especially when it cuts into your quality time together. Just keep being friendly towards him and his gf though.
Sorry, like I said my advise probably sucks. -
well you see wot c1 it was never really a question of whether or not I changed my relationship with him. I really like it just the way we are and wouldn't change anything. Everything is absolutely perfect.
And I feel the exact same way, it would really make for some tough corners if I dated my best friends brother. (Even if he is really cute)
This one is the most difficult, I really like him. He is cute , and goofy, and he is gong through a tough time. I don't mind his gf and I would never want to replace her but she is really clingy. He puts her first and although that is completely reasonable it is a struggle.
I like him, and his girlfriend. And to be perfectly frank, I envy his girlfriend. She has a great personality, a warm heart, and she has c1.
But you know what, the Lord put them in the positions they are in now for a reason. If God wants me to have a deeper relationship with one of them he will open that door.
No, you are helping me. I really appreciate this. -
Do you think I should tell them my feelings?
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I agree. :)
Yeah, I think you should take to him about all this. If you are really friends then he will try to fix it.
Oh, that is sad. Well as I can only imagine how horrible that must be to you, I think you should remain friends and cherish your time with him.
You are welcome.
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Erm, I don't know. C2 maybe. Not c3. A day I really do not know about c1, probably not but if you think you would then go ahead.
By the way. If it isn't to much to ask what are there names? (You don't have to tell me if you don't want.) -
Okay.
I will, thanks for all your help.
okay.
Okay
Okay. I will/won't
oh umm, Jonathon, Alex, Kaleb. Don't repetitive that please. -
And as for any random stalkers stalking you thread go away and you didn't hear anything. Okay?
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Okay. I have to go but it's been nice talking to you.
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You too.
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Why I brought any of this up confuzles me deeply. It's not like I want to change anything
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One in the morning....
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I should sleep
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Sleep! Damm,
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