Students chat room.
- Locked by Hephaestuschild on Dec 30, '20 6:17pmReason: Owner's Request.
Thread Topic: Students chat room.
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I guess I've never thought that somebody could be missing what I'm saying.
But if I do that, won't you be able to tell who I'm talking about? You were talking about Lillie and Weiss, right? Cauliflower is white, and Weiss' color is white. Broccoli is green, Lillie's color is green. Wouldn't calling them out like that just make them pissed at you? Plus, when you do that, everyone is just going to say how nobody would ever do that and that I'm wrong for feeling that way. If the person sees it, they're going to call you out, and say that it never happened. Everyone would agree with the other person. It's easier to keep it as anonymous as possible. Also, how do you know if the person won't take your weakness, and pin it against you? Showing vulnerability so directly only leads to pain. -
I made up the situation, it wasn't about anyone. If you are afraid of people 'cracking the code', use things not associated with color. For example, female names starting with the letter K. If someone has a name that goes with your theme, simply do not use it. If they are your real friends, they would talk to you privately about the situation, and try to make it right.
I personally don't believe anyone would deny your feelings. There is no reason without malicious intent for them to do so. Others would go to your defense.
I do not know where you got the whole 'weakness' thing from, but anyone who seems showing vulnerability is 'weak', is simply trying to mess with you. Vulnerability makes bonds with people stronger, as it gives a sense of trust to your relationship with said person. If you are not vulnerable, you can't form strong friendships.
I do not believe the reason you appear to not be close with as many people as others is because of who you are. The reason you aren't close with many, is because the people who do want to be close with you feel uncomfortable. They do not feel trusted by you, because you don't confide in them, which makes them feel you have no desire to be close with them. So they won't try. -
Not everyone wants to hear you talk about your life. One problem leads to another problem, like connect the dots. You can't confide in someone every time something bothers you. There's just too much. Wouldn't you find it weird if a person like me just started talking to you more?
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What about another person talking to you more is weird? It's not weird unless they're not acting like themselves. May I ask what you mean by a 'person like me'?
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Haven't you heard this phrase before?
"If you don't have a magnetic personality or an attractive body, talking to others will just make you look like a creep, love." -
Well, that's the phrase without the commentary part, but what that part is depends on who you are.
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Who did you hear that from? And what 'commentary' could have possibly followed to make someone say that without abusive intent?
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How would y'all feel if I told you I want to quit being a huntress and pursue my dream of being a chicken nugget scientist
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I'd join you
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If I knew I coulda been a chicken nugget scientist I woulda already be one
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I have a similar dream, I wanna be a french fry scientist
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I wanna be a stripper
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One more year, kid
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I want to master the art of pole dancing
I will be the best pole dancer you'll ever meet
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