WHY AM I SO... AWW.
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Thread Topic: WHY AM I SO... AWW.
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Dear Willing Helpers,
I don't know why it's bugging me so bad, but I've known this guy for a year, and this year will be the second year. But last year, he started dating my best friend (the same one I am now doubting) and I started crying and making an ass of myself because he was dating my friend and didn't tell me and I totally poured my heart out right in front of everybody... eh, I was embarrassed. But this year, he's excited she might be moving and he wants to break up with her and lately he's been teasing me (in a good way), wanting to hang out with me, I've caught him staring and when I told him I wasn't in his music group he got all dissapointed. I still like him, and we've been really close friends for a while.
And I know you all are probably going to say "Talk to him again" "Ask him out" but.... I'll be honest. When it comes to guys, I can be a bit, eh, what's the word... Wary. I'm scared to say anything and really I want them to make the first move because I'm too busy choking on my own words to get the balls to speak up and say anything. So, if you were in a situation like me, wanting to get on the more-than-friends ground but too scared to do anything, what would you do? By the way, I've already showed signs but I think we are both too f---ing stupidly shy to do anything. Awugha!!!
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Sincerely,
Tomboykaitie -
Write him a note
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what emmma said, i could possibly help, convince him of what an amazingly awesome person you are and ba-bam! you're going out :D
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:D That'd be cool but Idunno if I want him to ever find this thread... haha
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Then we shall make many threads to push this one back a whole bunch of pages
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we sure can
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Kaitie, I know what you're going through, I know how you feel and I know how hard it is to tell someone you love them.
I have some suggestions, I'll tell you them because I'm trying to give you all the help I can, but I know that they're crappy.
You could try:
1. Talk about him a lot with your friends, but when you know he's close by and he sees you saying how much you love him, and he might realize and say something.
2. Write him a note, poem, anything and put it on his desk at school or in a book or by his doorstep or just anything. (I'd recommend a poem, seems more... Feeling, if you get my jiff)
3. Talk to him by internet or E-Mail or something. I've noticed that it's easy to really let go when you're talking on the internet and say stuff you wouldn't say in real life, so send him an E-Mail or tell him here or any other site, you'll feel more relaxed and he'll probably talk with you on it the next day. =)
That's all I've got, they're all useless and they all suck dick, but it's all I've got to tell you and I'm trying to be supportive.
If you can't do any, then just wait for him to eventually get out with it, or TRY and tell him when he's alone, so if you break down or choke on your words, he'd be the only one to know. =) -
He's going out with another girl. I don't give a f--- about him at the moment....
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