Leah Listens...
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Thread Topic: Leah Listens...
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I thought I'd start an advice column as I've always wanted to do one, and of course help as many people as possible. Apart from the cheesy name of the column, I will try and give advice and support from the heart. The same I would want someone to do for me. So, don't hesitate, I'm not here to judge. Also, I must stress, you DO NOT have to follow my advice. It's your decision and your decision ONLY.
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Okay, well I've liked this boy in my class for a few months. At first I thought I had the slightest chance with him, then about two weeks ago he said he liked my friend's 18 year old sister. (We're both 12) and then yesterday, he was locking lips with one of the preps. :/ And I know I should just get over him, my head says too. But my heart just won't seem to let go.
P.S. I know I'm young to be thinking about this 'relationship' stuff, but it's just...eh. I wasn't even really looking for a serious relationship, just maybe a couple of dates. :P -
Bleh, cut me off.
What do you think is the best thing to do, for the time being? -
Okay, I'll do my best...
He probably only said he liked your friend's 18-year-old sister and was kissing that other girl, to make you notice. It's probably his way -a boy's way - of getting your attention.
Can you give me any details showing that he maybe liked you back?
For now though, just be the way you have always been around him, he liked you just from the beginning as who you were. If your heart is saying more that your head is, don't give up yet.You can only know when to pull the plug, but always try. -
Well, he teases me. (In a playful manor) More then once he's done it. He talks to me, at times. But sometimes ignores me. It's been mixed signals. He seems to take interest in what I like, and we have some things in common in music and movies.
Sorry, it's hard to think right now. I've got a headache. xP
But thanks, I will try. :3 -
Please be aware, I won't be on here as much as I used to, so I hope you are not discouraged from leaving advice, I'll try to help each and every one of you as much as I can.
Your queries are always welcome! -
okay.. sorry i dont have any question.. iv just wanted to say hi.. HI! :D.. last time i saw leah i wanted to get to know you.. but then you left.. so hey :) welcome back.. good luck on giving out advice and all.. hope it works out.. see you around
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No problem Ken, hello!
And thanks, I hope to get to know you too.
You're so sweet...
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...and gorgeous.
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aww :#) shucks.. im sure your sweeter..
but yeah i dont want to take over your thead and all.. uh.. do you have a facebook accout?
ps.. your very pertty your self :) :) -
Unfortunately, I don't. My parents would never let me have one, but I can start a thread just for us to talk - what do you think?
Oh, and thank you. -
its up to you.. if you make one just let me know.. if you dont thats fine.. not sure how this threads gonna go.. but yeah thats understandable about your parents.. its fine :)
so i guess ill be seing you around.. and again it dosent matter to me what you want to do
and anytime :) -
Well, sorry skatterbrain & peoples if I'm messing up your convo, but i was wondering leah if you know how my crush feels about me. We've known eachother for like, 2 years by now, and we only see eachother once a week at church. It was only recently he started talking to me much more than every b4 thru iMessage on our iPods, and then he did Face Time with me twice. We are soo alike in so many ways; love the same movies, books, games, and like EVERYTHING i can think of. He is easily offended, like when people call him loser, he takes it sooo seriously, its so sad. D: well he stares at me a lot, and make eye contact, and he always says hi and bye to me and stuff, and there's no other girl he says that to. Just friends, or more?
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You and your crush have started talking to each other a lot more than usual, you have much in common, he stares at you frequently, makes direct eye contact with you and says hi and bye to when he does not to any other girl.
These are all good signs. It shows that he thinks of you to be very special - specialer than any other girl - as these particular actions are only directed towards you. A guy staring at you is a great sign; he notices you. You've known each other for around 2 years now, a lot can develop in 2 years, and he hasn't forgotten you in that space of time. There are clearly feelings there. Judging my his actions and the length of time you two have known each other, I'd say there is great potential that you to could be more than friends.
Having said that, you can't rush into a relationship just like that. You need to consider the affect it could have on your friendship, if say it doesn't work out. But don't give up, you may not be his girlfriend in the next month, but there are years head as well. The timing has to be right, you both have to want the same thing, that could come next week or in 5 years.
So, yes, there is great potential. But be aware, a relationship and all that it entails comes with difficult times, so don't rush into it. Be patient, it'll fall into place.
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thanks so much, its really helped
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