So my one friend likes my other friend
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Thread Topic: So my one friend likes my other friend
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the other day my guys friend txted me and he asked my if i thought our friend (whos a girl) would ever go out with him. and i gave him some advice on what to do and promised i wouldnt tell anyone (which i havent) but i feel like hes so shy to flirt with her (even tho theyre friends) and hes so good at acting like he doesnt have a crush on her! its incredible but anyway i just wanted to know if any of you out there had any advice i could give my guy friend
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glitterchick97 NoviceAww:) I have some friends who like each other and they both know that the other likes them but he's too shy to say anything directly to her and she won't say anything either:P it's really cute:) u should talk to ur friend (the girl) and ask her if she likes anyone then casually mention his name or something...just tell ur guy friend to start brushing against her more or just flirt a bit:) I really hope I helped!!!:) good luck:D
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thnx glitterchick97 but the thing is, hes too shy/scared/nervous to brush against her or something and i think hes nervous about flirting with her and id feel weird teaching him how to flirt and theyre in all the same classes and their lockers are near eachother and i was at her locker this morning and i realized that he waits for her to walk to class with. and today she didnt nkow he was there but he walked behind her even ho she didnt know (how cute!) i just feel like hes too timid and wanna start him off with 'baby steps'
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any advice? at all?
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angelic4 Noviceif the girl friend somehow likes ur guy friend tell her to go for it and see what happens, tell the guy to ask her out or they will be someone else that will ask her out and i fear he'll regret it, if that doesn't work give the guy advise on the girl what's the point he likes her anyway, it's like i kinda hv the same problem, i had a crush on this guy, but while that happened, a differnt guy told one of my friends that he thinks i'm hot, and i certainly don't know how to approach him, annd now i know that if the guy doesn't make a move, the girl will just think he doesn't like her, and now i totally dont have a crush on the guy i liked
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thnx but the thing is, im pretty sure she only likes him as a friend. and he likes her cuz: shes pretty, funny, easy to talk to, ect. and ive tryied bringing up who we like when we hang out but i dont think she likes anyone and ive tryied bringing his name up but it doesnt rly work, its not that she changes the subject the convosation just doesnt last :(
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so (4 any1 who actually reads this.) i was just hanging out with my friend whos a girl and i kept bringing him up and i kept asking if she would ever go out with him and she kept saying 'hes our friend thatd be so weird, omg stop asking' and i asked he she thought he was cute and she said, 'well i wouldnt be friends with ugly people'
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angelic4 Noviceno offense but ur girl friend doesn't deserve the guy friend, tell the guy friend the truth cause if u dont he's going to get hurt even more and experience it first hand, ur girl friend shouldnt judge people by appearances infact if u r really brave ask her why u r friends, oh and if the guy friend is dissapointed tell him that there's girl out there only for him and noone ese, she might not come now but later she'll definitely show up, tell him that she doesnt deserve him or at least that he will be happy with another girl, it's her loss if she cant see him, and tell the girl to try and not judge guys by appearances but by their hearts think would rather have an abusive bf with goodloolks, or the sweetest kindest guy but not that goolooking, pliz forgive me if this is offensive and harsh i tell the truth as it is
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@angelica4: she didnt mean it like that. i was just trying to get her to say if she thought he was cute or not and i was like 'ur not answering me, do u think he's cute?' and she was like '...well hes not ugly' and i was like 'so u think hes cute?' and she was like 'omg, stop asking me im not answering!'
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angelic4 Noviceok sorry if i misunderstood, but if u keep on asking her like she's going figure it out that he likes her or worse she's going to think that u like him[that be really awkward and kinda funny] just tell the guy " Be a man go and ask her out, or somebody else is going to" and if he doesnt make a threat and say if u dont do it i'm ging to tell her u like her
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dont worry its okay, and thnx, i noticed that hes been talking to her alot more lately so thats good and i think hes slowly working up the nerve to ask her. hes really shy and timid and evn tho theyre friends its still a little weird/hard for him
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angelic4 Novicethat's gr8 happy it's working out i was running out of advise tell me how it goes 8D
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ok ill let you know a.s.a.p :)
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glambert Newbiei dont think he should ask her out immedietly. he should wait until she shows some affection for him (other than just being friends)
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Teresa22 Novicehave him start some kind of random inside joke with her. well i guess that's what you would call it. like 2 of my friends always hi-five when they see each other. another 2 of my friends always poke each other (it's kinda like tag only you don't run and you just do it randomly). maybe you could suggest he makes up a word and only says it to her. for example whenever he sees her he could say kittens and they just say it whenever they see each other. just an example don't use kittens!
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