Let's all play a game...
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Thread Topic: Let's all play a game...
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then you've already made your mind up that you arent willing to take any risks.
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That's true. But I love him so much. I always cry about him. I'm sorry. I am being super dramatic but I am just so confused.
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If you arent willing to take any risks for him, how is that reflecting to him about how you feel about him? He sees you as so wrapped up and comfortable in being just friends that you dont want to be with him.
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I want to be with him though. So bad. I want to ask him and tell him exactly how I feel but I can't. It's not always the friend thing though. Sometimes, I'm just a coward
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and he can tell
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He can tell, what? That I'm a coward or I love him a lot?
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that you're a coward.
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Oh...Probably. But...I took initiative when I first told him I liked him. I don't think I ever did then on...do you think should do it now?
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COLBI Newbiehello again
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yes.
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COLBI Newbiehello
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Okay. I might.
I asked him today if he hated me and here is the convo:
Me: Do you hate me?
*looks at me in a weird, confused way*
Him: No.
Me: Okay...Go---
Him: Why would you ask that? *he said this is a caring tone*
Me: I don't know. I just had a hard day.
Him: It's okay. I had a boring day too.
I know. I was so stupid. Why is so easy to ask someone if they hare hate you but so hard to ask someone if they love you. -
COLBI Newbieok..........
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He asked why you would ask that because it scared him. He is afraid that when he told you he liked you that he pushed you away. And now that you've asked if he hates you, it's like acknowleding his fears.
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Is that a good thing or a bad thing? In other words, am I turning him off?
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