HELP PLEASEEE!!!
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Thread Topic: HELP PLEASEEE!!!
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Some girls know that i put a post on before about this guy i liked and his ex being my freind. I never asked him out and we have become really good freinds. Unfortuantely his ex (my freind) sees this as me flirting with him so refuses to speak to me and most of the other girls and has avoided our group. It's really awkward cos I sit next to her in quite a few lessons. Any ideas on what I can say to her to convince her that Im not flirting with him?????
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No, I believe that you are infact flirting with the guy. You can say you're really good friends, but if you like him in anyway in that way specifically, of course you'll end up flirting even if you don't realize it. And of course any girlfriend, previous or ex, would get jealous of that... Now, I'm not on her side, just saying. My advice would probably be to distance yourself away from the guy if you want to continue to be friends with the girl. I think it's kind of stupid that she'd get jealous over her ex though... unless she still really likes him. Otherwise, just keep being 'friends' with the guy.
I meant that all in the nicest way possible and I hope it helps. Sorry you're stuck in that shiet... -
harpusrox7 Novicethat sounds like a pretty bad problem and I've had something simaler happen. Maybe you should tell her that you like him as a friend and make that as a friend part very clear. I used to be bff's with someone and then people thought we liked each other then he stopped being my friend. A few days later someone asked me if i liked him and i said as a friend and she told him the wrong thing and then he started telling people. I'm still very mad even though it was 5 or 6 months ago. He wasnt very smart because it got both of us in trouble but more me. Sorry you have to deal with that too i no its not fun at all.
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Thanks guys I spoke to her today she said she realises i may not be intentinally flirting. Unfortuantely she's now not talking to my other freind now because she thinks shes flirting with him too so i honestly give in as i personally am finding it rather pathetic now :/
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I kinda agree with u sammie. I mean, if she broke up, that duznt mean other grls cant talk to him too.
Mayb ur frnd is lonely inside cuz she broke up, mayb u and ur frnds shud gather around her and ask her if sth's bothering her.
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Boys aren't property. You can't own them. Even if you think he's yours, he's never fully yours. There's no reason to be jealous over people flirting with your ex. It's the natural cycle of most relationships. Get together for a while, break up, find new people. Just talk about it. And if she gets upset or angry at you, just say "sorry" and leave.
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I can understand if they were still TOGETHER, but once it's completely over there's no reason to be upset.
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harpusrox7 Novicei agree with kaitie except she can be upset if she doesnt know why they broke up and is mad about it
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Here is another thread I was talking about (when I was a newbie and all that)
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