Is this normal?
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Thread Topic: Is this normal?
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I develop feelings for someone really easily. Is that normal? If someone is nice to me and I relate to them, BOOM. Feelings. I also am wondering if there’s a term for it?
And since I’m polyamorous it leads me to have multiple crushes at one time. I’m currently crushing on two people T^T -
One of the people I’m crushing on is a girl whose already in a relationship. I also think I might be crushing on her boyfriend (whose one of my exes) and then a guy that I ranted about here.
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you’re 13
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Yes, thanks for telling me how old I am, I forgot.
Is anybody going to give me a serious answer? -
you're 13
it'll pass -
And I’ll actually be turning 14 in September, so I’m not much younger than you tbh.
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So? What does being 13 have to do with anything? As kids, many of us grow up having all kinds of crushes, whether it's on a older person, a friend, a cartoon, a celebrity... etc.
Any one can have a crush, even older people. It's never too young or too old to have crushes.
@Keyboard, crushes are basically infatuations. At least that's how I see it. You want to be in a relationship- or maybe you just want to feel something, so it's normal to be seeking for candidates. Because of this, you sorta of have low expectations, which results in multiple crushes. Just be sure to know that crushes are also based on attractions. As for the term, I'm not sure if there really is one. -
i may only be speaking for myself, but at 13 i had a lot of crushes on people. Now, a few years later, i either get deep feelings for someone or i see them as a friend. the last person i had deep feelings for has been with me for 7 months, that's why i'm saying it'll pass
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Thanks @ur gay lol for a straight answer.
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I came out at early 13.
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“for a straight answer”
Why is this amazing? 😂
No problem! Happy to give some insight. -
Why is this amazing? 😂
No problem! Happy to give some insight.
It was actually an intended pun too, I’m glad you noticed it.
I’ve been trying to keep the gay jokes to a minimum because no one likes me talking gay smut so :) -
It's actually an issue I had to put up with. Some guy was nice to me? BAM! I liked them. But there's more to it then that. I've moved on from my crushes (except Alex ofc). But I find it really attractive if someone has an interest in me.
I'm like, "Wow, you like me?" It's really touching to think that someone would ever like me that way ^_^ -
well, i’m about to turn 16 so 😣😖😣😖 if you wanna get technical.
but in all seriousness, you’re not even developed yet. your feelings and mindset are going to change throughout these years. that’s why i wouldn’t spend much time worrying about it. you should focus on yourself instead, but that’s your choice.
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