advice needed
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Thread Topic: advice needed
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there's a guy in my life who is really sweet and cares a lot about me. and for a while, i was like yes, i like you too. but as time has passed, i'm starting to feel like i either jumped the gun or just wasn't capable of making any kind of decision because i was depressed and just trying to find something to cling to. i've been on the fence about my feelings for a few weeks now.
we aren't dating or anything like that, but people keep joking about how good of a couple we are. and it's making me upset, because i kind of fee like my heart is in a totally different place. i made a mistake, and whether or not he's ok with that, it doesn't change the fact that i'm miserable right now.
so. how can i figure out what is going on? how do i approach my friends about it? how do i approach him about it? -
&how do you get over someone who doesn't want to be in your life? this is very important, I don't want to go into it but i NEED to know good "getting over yourself" methods. because i think that if i can put these feelings to rest, i can figure myself out better.
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I've been in a similar situation. For me, I was straight up with him and told him the truth: I wasn't sure I really liked him and that I needed time to know for sure. We remained friends for a while and discovered neither of us had really liked the other, it was more a depression-making-us-clingy kind of thing.So we are back to being friends.
Just tell those people who are saying that that you are not dating and them doing that is upsetting you and ask them to stop.
For me, getting over someone involved a lot of anger and a friend to get me laughing with their plans of ways to exact revenge on the person for hurting me when I wasn't mad, just sad. Then, after a while, I stopped hurting. Time is many things, a pain reliever is one of them.I forgave the person, and that helped a lot.
You don't have to do what I did if you don't want to, I am just telling you how my experience went. -
much helped
Thanks that helped! btw would you mind changing your profile picture, only we have minors on gtq and it makes me feel a little uncomfortable myself -
Sure! Sorry for its creepiness, I had a copycat trying to start drama and needed to change it, so people would know which was which.
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Is this better?
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HOW DID YOU FIGURE OUT MY PASSWORD
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THAT'S NOT FAIR
I don't even remember my password for my main, I changed it to share it with a friend :( -
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anyway uhh
I did talk to him, so that was good. I wasn't sure I'd be brave enough to, but it worked out.
I don't have any ill-will towards the other person. I just miss them a lot. I'm a person who needs closure, and I feel like what we got wasn't good enough. Or, more like I just didn't say what I really wanted to say. But I promised that I wouldn't bother them if they wanted me out of their life, so I'm trying to uphold that. I'm just struggling to continue to move on. Talking about them makes me sad. Thinking about them makes me sad, really. And I'm trying to accept that it won't come easy, that there's no specific date on when I'll feel better, but I want to be okay now, you know? -
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Lmfao chill dork -
I'm an idiot ðŸ˜
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You are not an idiot. You are doing your best, and you need to understand that sometimes that is all you can do. I know it hurts to be away from them, I really do but all you need to do is give it time.
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I was referring to my panic about being hacked when all it was was someone making a double of me, but thank you for your support
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