This is probably just going to be me,
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Thread Topic: This is probably just going to be me,
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But I hate it when people constantly date. Like, they can't be single for a few days without finding another person to date. In all honestly, I think people like that need to learn how to be single or something and that life isn't about relationships. I can understand some cases, but most at least here in Port Angeles, drive me insane.
Then what pisses me off even more, at least from what I've seen here, are those people who date a new person every few days, and are in "love" with every single one of them. You aren't in love, you're just trying to replace the last date you had T_T
But like I said before, there are some cases that are excusable. But here people are total bakas when it comes to relationships -_- Then they yell at me for not dating anyone... I don't want to date any of these whores because I'll get dumped within a few days and instantly replaced :P I'm not cool with that. -
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I agree. That would totally suck. I hate that. =/ I think you phrased this really well.
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Flow Novice
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Ugh I hate people who just date because they feel like it. It's stupid and completely insensetive
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half agreed
people who do that, must really really suck at keeping relationships going.
(don't feel like explaining right now, i'll post again later) -
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I agree with you.
I never dated anyone. I don't think I will.
Also, I don't have a crush and my best friends is pestering me about it. I told her I would only cursh if the guy has a GREAT personality and likes me. -
I have a dumb--- at my school who gets a new girlfriend BEFORE he breaks up with the old.
Sadly I dated the baka...-.- -
That's why I don't date:
1. NOT ALLOWED
2. they dump you, and it's not like your gonna marry them. -
Flow NoviceThat is something I hate about guys, they always turn on you. I dated a guy who uses girls and he ruined my life, at least for a while.
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That's why you find a guy that won't do that to you. Also, WB, you date so that you can find the kind of person you DO want to marry. You never know until you try.
And you don't just date a guy the day you meet him. Once you get to know him, you know whether or not he would screw you over. -
I have only ever been in four relationships.
My first one turned out to be a little uncomfortable. We ended up being more of friends than we were really dating. I was also too young and too immature to truly understand and handle a serious relationship.
My second one was on GTQ. I dated a girl that people rarely see any more named nuna. When we met her life was going to hell and she needed someone to be with. I was also depressed because I needed someone to be with too. I understood what it meant to be in a relationship, but I was still not mature enough for one.
My third was too hasty. I jumped right into it and didnt judge the person I was dating well enough. She cheated on me after only a week. I spent the next week trying to fix the damage she had done and trying to make it work. It didnt. I learned my lesson then and learned how to handle anything a relationship could throw at me.
My current girlfriend and I have both been through the same story. We have both gone through the same stages and both understand each other. Our strengths and weaknesses work together and even though we dont always agree we both know we will be there for each other.
I do not believe a relationship is serious unless you have truly understood what a relationship is. A relationship isnt just having a crush on someone or thinking they are cute. It's being able to connect with another person. Understanding their lives better than you understand your own. It's about accepting one anothers faults and knowing when to stand beside them, and when to tell them when it's enough. A relationship isnt something you try to have. If it's real, there's no need to try. You can claim to me that your relationship is serious and that it's going to last forever all you want, but unless you know you are old enough, mature enough, willing to accept the other person, and compatible with them, I guess you're just on one of the many steps to a truely genuine relationship. -
That was a nice speech, actually. Out of curiosity, how old were you in your first relationship, and how old are you now?
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My first relationship was when I was 13. I'm 16 now.
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