NEED ADVICE!!!
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Thread Topic: NEED ADVICE!!!
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Right hopefully someone can help. There's this lad I like, but his Ex is really good freinds with me and she says she will never speak to me again if i even think of asking him out :( we are really good mates me and him atm, and he's told people he likes me too. Does anyone know what I can do and give me some advice?
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Personally, I think that if his ex is really your friend, she will be happy for you being with him. But make sure he's worth it. Because if you end up risking your friendship with your friend, you want to make sure he'll be a better friend.
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Flow NoviceThe truth is friends are more important than a boy. I've experienced the same problem. Exactly the same. Hope this helped.
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A bit of musicgirl and Flow's advice is good. Here's my advice:
Bros before hoes. But this works well with girls as well. I personally think it's dumb that she'd be upset about you dating her ex, but at the same time I can understand. If you really like your friend, don't go out with him. But, if you feel like you and the boy would last and like you'd enjoy the boyfriend more, then go with the boy. It's your decision. Good luck! -
yeah, wat TBK said, random btw, u joined GTQ on my 15th b-day
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Go with your heart. Your heart is what carries you through life. Make a list of pros and cons of each choice, and also think about how it would impact your life. I also agree with kaitie's response. Bonne chance!! (Good luck!!)
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Hmmm... think I'll just leave it. If he asks me she can't really blame me for it acn she? and Id love to take a chance. I'd just hate to get it wrong
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tazia101 NoviceYes, but If that girl blames you for who you like, should she really be your friend?
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*shrugs* Jealousy gets the best of all of us sometimes. I'm sure if he asks you she'll get over it.
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Flow NoviceMaybe you could tell us about how he makes you feel, if he's cheated on people in the past and if you like anyone else. This will help us decide. If that isn't to much.
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Okay, he's only ever dated one girl in our school whihc was her. We get on really well and have tons in common. Isee him everyday and he's in alot of my classes. He stares at me an awful lot too. And I like him alot he makes me feel just happy really. But she hates it one fo the other girls who he's freinds with Shannon, his ex had a huge go at her and accused her of flirting so im actually kinda scared but id love to be in a relationship with him
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sorry worded wrong shannon is ther freind not the ex ^
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Flow NoviceThat's good but the truth is it is your choice but honestly I think it's best to let him decide what to do. Being a person that's screwed up a lot of friendships because of guys I know that it's not always best to choose the guy but if you really like him let him come to you! Talk this through with your friend after she's calmed down. Maybe you could set her up with someone new. This might just work!
Making friend no longer mad
Finding if he truly likes you
.. Getting a boyfriend (maybe)
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