Alright. Help me understand this situation.
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Thread Topic: Alright. Help me understand this situation.
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The other night I was with friends of mine. We'll call them P and A. I've had some problems with P. We've had a lot of messy falling outs and she's kinda a jerk to me most of the time. I decided to give her another chance because she's been trying help A out. He's a couple months younger than us and is going through a lot of really messed up stuff, and P was really in over her head trying to help him. So I decided to step in and be there for her.
This past Friday, the three of us were hanging out. We went to Arbys and then to a cemetery, and for some reason that I can't remember, A ended up sitting on my lap while we drove back to his house. He jokingly gave me a "lap dance" to some s---ty pop music, and we talked about how we would explain it if we got pulled over. It was stupid and dangerous but.. I was having fun and we were laughing and it was just nice.
When we got to his house, I was preoccupied with petting little cute puppies and the momma dog. And then A and P started making out.. Which was a bit of a shock because P has a boyfriend, but I was like "whatever, not my business" and kept doing what I was doing.. And things escalated to the point that I was very awkwardly staring at my phone while trying to keep from seeing something I didn't want to.
Then, A gets up to go calm down and get some water, and P comes over to me and kinda crawls over me and bites my neck. And I'm like "????" internally. She kinda kept touching me and s--- and I was like "OKAY CAN WE GO HOME."
So she kissed A goodbye and we got in the car and drove to my house. During the drive over, she asked me if I liked A, if I'd kiss him, if I'd have sex with him.. To which I answered yes, yes, and no. And changed the subject.
When we got to my house, P kissed me. Like not a little peck. Full on kiss, tongue and s---. I left as quick as possible and went to my room to cry because I was so confused.
I still am.
I'm pretty sure I'm just going to avoid the both of them but like.. I just want to know what was going on.
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bruh what NewbieP sounds like a thirsty hoe
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Relevant Novicewe think shut up you're annoying
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Well... It kinda sounds like your friends want you and them to be part of a threesome relationship. It sounds really weird. But apparently those exist.
Two of my friends are part of a threesome relationship with another girl. One of the girls is bi and I guess the other one is too. The guy is probably straight.
Of course if this were to happen P would have to dump their boyfriend. A threesome relationship would cause a lot of attention and so P's boyfriend would easily find out about it. -
I was thinking she might have been trying to initiate a threesome. Like.. I'm attracted to both of them, yeah, but I wasn't comfortable doing that. It felt wrong. I just got out of a relationship and don't exactly want to jump into anything with anyone else right yet.
As far as a RELATIONSHIP goes with them.. If that were true, I *might* be up for it eventually but I don't think that's the case. I really want to just be friends with them but everything is so crazy right now. -
I'm sure if you tell them that they'll understand. You'll probably either go back to being friends, you're friends with them and they are in a relationship waiting for you to be ready, or they'll find a way to make you feel comfortable. Those are the three most likely solutions.
If they don't understand though, they might be acting this way because everything in your life is so crazy right now. And this is their way of dealing with it. -
P doesn't sound like she can stay in a relationship. Like, she has a boyfriend, makes out with A, and then kisses you. That's messed up. She's not going to like just you is what I'm saying. It wouldn't be a relationship that would last, and she doesn't sound very trustworthy.
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woah :o yall kids be wylin these days
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