so..

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Thread Topic: so..

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  coolme3 Senior

  7 years ago
  since you're just a bunch of kids mostly and probably wont have much advice..
  
  guess I just gotta write this out or something to get my mind straight..
  
  yesterday my boyfriend that lives with me left his laptop open on facebook messages between him and his ex.
  and I've never felt the need to look thru his stuff or anything. I really trust him -- trustED him.
  
  but it was right there. and for some reason I read the messages. and scrolled up and read older messages.
  
  and he's been talking to her. like recently were all just messages from her and he didn't reply. but a couple months ago they were talking a lot. and facebook phone calling a lot. and we've been together for 2 yrs so this is within that 2 yrs obviously.
  
  and the messages from her consisted of stuff about how she still loves him and s---. but he didn't say anything incriminating. but one from her right after a hr long fb phone call cause it tells you in messages when they called eachother, she messaged him " so you weren't just watching me play w my p---- ?"
  
  and his reply was just "we don't need to talk"
  
  ??
  and I thought maybe shes just one of those psycho girls. and shes doing some crazy scheme where she knows I'm gonna read this somehow. and it means nothing.
  
  but I saw 2 of his messages to her said "I forgive you" and "I do want to see you"
  
  and I felt my heart sink when I read that.
  but I was still gonna just ignore all this, pretend I didn't see it and forget about ever reading their messages.
  
  until at work today one of his friends calls me and tells me "if anyone at work tells you that a girl called for [my boyfriend's name], it was just me." and this was his GUY friend so I was really confused... like hes got a really deep voice he couldn't even pretend to be a girl voice on the phone.
  
  So when I got home from work today I asked my bf about all this. and he just kept saying him and his ex were just talking. and "she's crazy" when I said she didn't seem to think they were "just talking"
  
  so idk. tl;dr? don't care just had to get this out for myself I guess. :/
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  Julia Anderson Novice

  7 years ago
  That's sad
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  Bloody_Alice Novice

  7 years ago
  Hmm.
  Well, thats that's probably the best choice. I mean couples go through hardships all the time. If you love him, talk to him about it, amd if you two decide to break up, well then it's his loss he doesn't deserve you if he wants to break up.

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