I have a situation~
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Thread Topic: I have a situation~
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Red_Roses00 NewbieI met this one person named, Breaken in May of last year. We hit it off, life was great. Of course both of us had our issues and we picked each other up when we were down. We were not exactly together but the chemistry and all the feelings were there. Even we were slowly going into the relationship area. I moved away in September of last year.
Conveniently enough, I met Breaken's friend, Kaleb. Once more we hit it off, life was magical. He was so intrigued in knowing who I am as a person. Wanted to learn as much as he could, constantly wanting to know me and not just my past. Which is quite awful I might add. We actually gotten together, it lasted for months, until the end of August.
Then a very unfortunate event occurred and Kaleb moved away. End of December I moved back to the place I was at before, with Breaken. He was ecstatic to see me, and we started into a relationship. Full title. See this was during winter break, and not many people would be in their neighborhood. Off on vacations off some sort. Breaken spoke of his old friend that moved back while I was away. Said that we are very much alike and should get to know each other, but he wasn't there given the winter break.
A few weeks later I see Kaleb at the mailbox, I say hi. He tells me he recently moved back to where he was before. We talk for hours, then Breaken walks up, surprised that I had already met his old friend. Everything clicks into place. Soon I discover Kaleb is in a very intimate relationship, and I feel jealously. The catch is, he's dating one if my closest friends
I both love Breaken and Kaleb. Both are very dear go me, Breaken doesn't talk to me much, but he's very caring and sweet. Kaleb, he brings life into me I never known before. Both show me different aspects of life and of me I never understood. I'm conflicted, and I haven't any clue where else to go. Any ideas? -
which ever one asks u out first
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This is exactly like tge Damon, Stefan, and Elena thing. Whichever one proves more dear to you. And whichever one would go to great lengts to keep you by their side. If Kaleb has a girlfriend I suggest Breaken.
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Red_Roses00 NewbieDracoMalfoyFan- Yes Kaleb does indeed have a girlfriend. Nonetheless, Breaken barely speaks to me. Neither does Kaleb. He completely absorbed himself with his girlfriend, and the rare occasions he answers me back it's a sentence containing very little words. I both love them. And yes it's very much line Vampire Diaries. I can't simply choose. Both consists of qualities that make me a better person. And usually I am waiting for Breaken just to be there. While I watch Kaleb and his girlfriend. Kaleb and I were saying "I love you" to one another after the third, fourth month mark. With him and her, they've only been together for about two weeks, if that, and are already spouting promises and quotes of love.
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Neither. If Breaken can't be there for you I suggest stop waiting on him and go out and find someone. Because you love these two doesn't mean one of these two are meant to be with you forever.
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Red_Roses00 NewbieI understand. They....understand me so well. As a person. I do nut not understand what happened shut Kaleb though. He hasn't been acting how he usually does
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People change. One day Kaleb was the person you knew then the next day, he's gone. People always change. It's part of life...
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Question. Are you a teen. Teen relationships don't tend to last. Hate to break it to you, but maybe both of them are not the one that is meant for you. They'll move on. Or maybe they aren't what they seem to be. Maybe they are just playing with the tenor of your emotions. Using you as a ragdoll. You never know.
"Life isn't fair." Ever heard of that? Maybe neither of them are meant for you. But in the meantime, try to decipher what you really feel for each of them. The pros and cons, the good the bad the ugly, etc. -
Red_Roses00 NewbieDraco~ Its plausable. I understand people change. much like evolution, but Kaleb never had acted this way. Throughout the year I've known him.
Twilight: I am 19 years. I've heard of that saying, life isn't fair. I suppose it felt meant to be.
I can try that. It'll be hard to decipher though -
If Breaken doesn't give you the time of day to simply respond to you, he isn't worth your time, dear. Also, have you and Breaken ever talked about dating and do you know if he shares the same feelings as you?
As for Kaleb, sorry to say this, but you most likely do not have a chance with him since he already has a girlfriend that, it seems, he adores deeply. -
Red_Roses00 NewbieCheese4M3: Breaken has. He told me on multiple occasions that he feels very passionately towards me, even love. We both have talked about dating, as we are in one right at the moment
Yes I've realized that. I have attempted to try and just obliterate my feelings, but lately it isn't working as well as I would have preferred. And, not to be rude but, Kaleb is dating a boy. -
HM. Well, I don't know what to tell you, dear~ Good luck, though.
Oh, I'm sorry. Boyfriend, I mean~
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