How do you help someone realize they're being used?
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Thread Topic: How do you help someone realize they're being used?
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There's a girl that I was attracted to for quite some time. She's very pretty, and sweet towards everyone she meets. However, her overly-trusting personality has a guy on her. He touches her in places that shouldn't be touched by a friend, and he's always talking to her when her friends aren't paying attention. I've heard him ask people good ways to tease a girl. I'm also aware he's dated at least one of my friends. He doesn't seem to be a bad guy, but I'm worried he'll drop her and she'll be unsure of herself. She isn't exactly the brightest girl, either, and she finds his touching to be friendly and not sexual. He even asked her out and she wasn't sure of herself, but went with it anyway. What do I tell her to get her to realize he might be using her?
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Simply tell her that she's being used. Try to convince her with convincing points. If she doesn't listen to you, let her do what she is doing because slowly and lately she'll be aware of what she did...(if you're right).
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I suggest you just confront her honestly. Tell her you think she's being used and offer an explanation as to why you think this. You could also tell her you're a bit worried and concerned about her relationship with this guy.
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Tell her she's being used! If they are friends and he's touching her, that's not okay. Straight up tell her.
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