You don't stop loving someone.
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Thread Topic: You don't stop loving someone.
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Love is the meta cognitive evolution of the hormonal response to physical stimulus. That is to say that you receive amorous hormones from engaging in certain activities involving another person whom you're attracted to such as a hug or direct eye contact; hormones which in turn produce the giddy feelings commonly categorized as lust, or more whimsically a "crush". The emotions you feel are reflected on in a process called metacognition which then leads you to make a choice about the object of your lust, namely: good mate or bad mate. If you decide this person is a good mate, your mind applies the pertanent lingual aspects to the situation and you say: I love you.
All of this in practice of course is one of course is quite natural and aesthetic, but the fact is, that love is dependant on both the actions of your partner, and your own feelings of attraction. As you achieve the phenomenon of love through the meeting of specific criteria, Taking either away would break the circuit so to speak, and destabilize the relationship.
In conclusion, yes, it is possible to fall out of love, and no it doesn't mean that the emotions you felt prior to the destabilization of the romance were invalid. -
Unfortunately true.
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