Help please!!
- Locked due to inactivity on Aug 4, '16 4:34pm
Thread Topic: Help please!!
-
Can I fly NewbieMy boyfriend. We just started dating July 14th. I always get this feeling that this whole relationship is just a prank. He is hot, I will say that. He gets all the girls he wants, well he can get them. He's the Mr. Popular guy. He's popular and I'm the loner girl. I started my school in March, and now it's July, before summer started, we barely would speak one word to one another. Even though he was in my English and my history class. On my birthday July 5th, my step sister took me swimming at the pool in my neighborhood. And he was there with his friend Bryan. His friend left, and he was just there sitting next to me, while I was in the pool and he was sitting on the ledge of the pool. I asked him why he wasn't swimming, and it went from there. Then after I coaxed him into getting into the water, he asked if he could swim underneath my legs, for practice because he's on the swim team. Me and my nave self let him. And his head or his hand his my butt. I started is laughing. And then he slapped my butt, then did it again. He said I had a nice ass. Then he asked if I wanted to go on a walk with him. I said sure because I wasnt doing anything really. We got to talking, and started to get to know each other.
His friend was texting him. And he told his friend he was hanging out with me. His friend Jullian wanted a picture of me, so he tried to take one. I hate my picture taken so I hid my face. He kept tormenting me. And said "Why are you hiding your beautiful face?" I went to putty. But I said I wasn't beautiful. I denied it. Then after a while of that, he asked if I wanted to come over tomorrow, and I said sure.
(This is the 6th of July.)
The next day I went over, and we went to get his friend Bryan. Bryan lives on my street, so it wasn't that far away. We got him, and Bryan and my boyfriend kept talking about things that they were good at. And my boyfriend knows shoes. It's odd. And Bryan knows cars. So they went on about that. With me, my boyfriend made sure I wasn't out. Or forgotten, bringing me in the conversation. It was sweet. But my boyfriend, kept talking about some girls that wanted to have sex with him. But my boyfriend is a virgin, and believes that he is too young. (He's getting ready to be 15 in December) It started to rain so we went to his house, because it was the closest shelter.
My boyfriend kept saying I could kick somebody's ass with my legs and everything.
We started talking and it was great. Around 6 he had to go in because of Class. So brhan and I went home.
A few days later the 14th of July, I am doing my usual routine, I was listening to music and sitting on my porch. Remember when I mentioned that Bryan lives on my streets, and there's a pool. Well I live on the main road to get to the pool, so my boyfriend was rolling down the street with Bryan, Bryan's friend Dakota, and Bryan's little brother Nick. They stopped and rolled up my driveway. My boyfriend asked if I wanted to go swimming with them. I kept declining their offer, and then they said just come and talk then. So I gave in and said I'll meet them there.
When I got there they asked and begged for me to go swimming with them, and I finally gave in. I left and came back so I can put on my bathing suit. I put sweatpants and a black tanktop over my bikini. While I took off my shirt, my boyfriend and everyone else stopped. (Not the whole pool, Dakota and that bunch) I told them to turn around while I'm taking off my pants because I feel like I'm getting naked. Which I am not!!!!! I just had the feeling. So they did and I jumped in. We played chicken and all these games. My boyfriend wouldn't get into the water, and I begged him to. He said I had to have a reason, which I did, but I told him I didn't.
After a while, I lied and told my boyfriend if he does get in, I'll tell him. I didn't, and he got in. Bryan was pretending to baptise everyone. And tried to do me. I told him I didn't want to, I was already baptised. And I don't need it again. But he did it anyway and I almost drowned. I layed down on a chair, and my boyfriend stayed by my side asking if I'm alright. Dakota and Bryan and Nick left to get their shoes and change but they'll be back
My boyfriend, asked me the reason why. And I said he'll make fun of me, he promised he wouldn't and I told him. I liked him. And I was embarrassed. I ran and jumped into the pool, in the deepest end. My boyfriend jumped in after me, and kissed me. He was so nervous after we got after the water. Shaking and smiling. It was his first kiss. I was surprised, wasnt a ladies man supposed to already have their first kiss years ago??????
Then he asked me out. After that he showed me off to his parents, and little sister.
Am I just overreacting? After seeing me in a bikini he had enough balls to talk to me during summer???? After spending months in the same classes???? After everything? Am I? Am I just over thinking everything? -
First of all: If he's as hot as you said and if he's a ladies person than you coulnd't have been his first kiss. If he can get any girl he wants than he's probably not even a virgin either. *I might be wrong* you say he touched and smacked your butt in the pool, if he never kissed any girl like you say, than how the hell is a boy that never kissed gona touch a girls butt?
You say that you one of those * Loner types* "Firstly"
Don't call yourself one of those *Loner types* you shouldn't degrade yourself in anyway. You,you and shouldn't change for anyone, not even for him.
You call yourself a *loner type*, which means you probably still a virgin and he probably knew that to, and he saw an opportunity. A nice innocent girl, with a bad-boy Mr. Popular.
This might all just be a prank *sorry to say so* and if it is just know that it wasn't your fault. You didn't cause any of this. Just know that you deserve someone much better.
But
If it's not, than get to know him better and don't make him change you for what you really are.
Just do you. *that sounds so sexual* *shakes head*
And don't be hasty into doing something foolish like
"Giving your V card to him"
Just be you , and live life the way you supposed to:'Happily'
Hoped that help. -
Thanks
-
s--- wrong thread.
This thread is locked, therefore no new posts can be made.
