Love yourself
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Thread Topic: Love yourself
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f---ing be in love with you before you get into a relationship,because let me tell you if you don't you'll be unhappy either way." If you don't love yourself, how the hell anybody going to love you" I've always heard that quote, and pushed it aside because I always thought it wouldn't affect my relationships, but holy s--- it does, so much.
I f---ing hate who I am and it causes so much trouble with my lover, it makes me so insecure and jealous- I'm never happy and I'm a constant downer all the time and I hate it so much, my insecurities have almost made me lose the best thing that has ever happened to me, and I'm so tired of it.I feel like I'm toxic to be around at times, but I'm trying to change that.I'm trying to accept what I am, who I am, and just work it out.I want him to know I'm happy, and I want our times together to be fun and light-not tense and full of f---ing drama.I want it to be like when we first met, not caring if I looked okay or that I'm not the brightest, just f---ing happy that he gave his attention to me and the smiles and "I love you" took little effort to say and the sparks the flew between us.I want that, I need that.
I'm kinda venting, and putting this here to look back on-I just want to be a better person to myself and to him.. -
my respect, dude.
that is what you have earned just now.
my respect. -
Well at least you know that now... So what's stopping you? He's with you so isn't that all you need to know? If you weren't good enough then he wouldn't have chosen you in the first place. Saying that, if anything did go wrong then it'd be from relationship issues and not that you weren't good enough.
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