a lil nugget
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Thread Topic: a lil nugget
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Lol ok My young friends, uncle Tea's gonna share a little nugget of truth with you all.
So earlier today I had a conversation with this, absolute, bumbling, fumbling, buffoon. We were sitting in the library, and one of my female friends opened a dialogue about marriage. So this dude with us starts saying how monogamy is unnatural and unhealthy(ha, more on that later), and generally just talking a mess about how much of a genius he is, and how much marriage is crazy. Then this little punk goes on to say he doesn't believe in love because the girl of his dreams broke his heart D: and now he's a player with three girlfriends and that players are nice guys who've been broken.
Aaaaand thats when I started laughing.
so here's the lesson mi chavos: first of all, no monogamy is not a bad thing. Many many many studies link it to numerous health benefits and even youtube personality Michael from vsauce made a video on how much money love itself is worth.(it was a lot, and you can trust Michael). Basically, if you dont bury your head in sand you can see its not bad from a physical standpoint.
But more to the topic of players and nice guys. Its bulls---. The nice guy/player thing is an idea of sexual/romantic victimization vs predatory behavior. And yes, the ideology is correct, the weak are prey, and the powerful are predators. The flaw I in the dichotomy itself. A mans strength is not measured by his empathy, whether he is highly empathic or highly insensitive. A mans strength is measured by his results.
let me make that clear.
A MANS STRENGTH IS NOT MEASURED BY HOW MUCH OF A PLAYER HE IS, OR HOW NICE HE IS. IT IS MEASURED BY HIS ABILITY TO GET WHAT HE VALUES. IT IS MEASURED BY HIS RESULTS
Little homies, when you go looking to hook up with someone or looking for a mate, its easy to buy into the whole non monogamy thing, because life is hard and many people develop commitment issues which they religiously preach to youth as if to validate themselves inspite of weakness. But its also easy to get cauhjt up in monogamy too.
See the push about nice guys and players is bulls---, the truth is that what you feel, is real. It is the only thing thats real. Never let anyone tell you your feelings are invalid because it the ONLY argument you can when. If you feel like messing around and screwing everykid on the block, then do it. If you feel like commiting to one person then do it. If your not a romance person then dont partake. If you're clingy, then find someone who likes to be clung too. If your pushy, find someone who likes to be pushed. Or change your ways. Whaaaatever you like to do. Aaanything.
Theres only too rules to success in sexual endeavors: do what YOU WANT to do. You. Want.
And protect yourself at all times. Because you are the only one responsible for your safety.
Anything else is bulls---.
Trust me, I know what im talking about. I've been the most unlikable person in the world, and the most popular person in town. I've been goddamn don jaun with my other b---- f---ing with my other b----, and I've also been a very loyal and loving partner. I've got a lot experience in a lot less years then most people because sex and emotions are more important to me then most people and I've learned kind of a lot.
So the moral of the story is that people who flaunt their apathy or empathy are weak, and caught up in a system of being pressured by society. Reject that, and trust your heart. -
Everyone one speaks out,
To one another, but I,
Will hear my own voice.
Live by these words guys. Im telling you. Its freedom.
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