Feeling rejected.
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Thread Topic: Feeling rejected.
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I'm not sure what I'm asking but oh well, its venting.Kinda embarrassing.
Eh...don't wanna get to personal about it.Hopefully you know what I mean by rejected.Anyway I'm just a little bummed out because he's been doing that a lot lately...I mean sex doesn't make up our relationship but I feel bad when he does this.We've been together for more than a year already and we used to do it sorta often but now its none at all, he doesn't even make-out as long as before anymore.I dunno if he's just tired or something..when I asked him about this he said he wants our relationship to be more than just sex, but the thing is it already is a lot more than that.We didn't do it so ofen to begin with.I dunno how to tell him how I feel without sounding like that's all I care about because its not but I just feel closer every now and then when we do...:/ Starting this week we're going to be separated even further due to our jobs and his school so these kinda things mean more to me now.I try not to spoil our little time together by trying to initiate sex and just enjoy being with him in general but I can't help but just feel...meh.I believe him when he says its for that reason but I still just feel like s--- lol.
Ah this is a bad idea to post but f--- it, I have no one else or anywhere else to vent this out. -
I'd suggest doing what he wants to do for a day. It sounds like he's wanting to make more memories with you. To feel intimate and romantically close. Maybe try that with him and then see if he'll be more receptive to what you define as intimate.
There are two different kinds of intimate, and both of you seem to be feeling like your relationship is lacking what the other one doesn't feel is being left out.
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Yeah I get you, I'll give that a try. I don't mind doing that either way so yeah.I just feel a little left out at times, lol.
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Relationships can be hard sometimes bro. I know the feels. But I hope for the best between you two.
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Thanks James
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