I'm waiting for this damn pain to end.
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Thread Topic: I'm waiting for this damn pain to end.
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The smallest thing can bring the pain back to my heart as if it was just yesterday she tore it apart. A simple thought, picture, music, word or even a name revives the pain. I'm tired of this...every day is like yesterday. She's happy with someone else while I'm suffering here alone, absolutely alone. I'm dying here and they are having fun.
But I'm waiting for this to end...I know it will... -
Sometimes the pain is too much my heart is literally about to jump out. Meanwhile she's the happiest girl in the world...
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Perhaps getting up and doing something is more effective compared to trying to wait it out.
Besides, it's about time to let go. If she doesn't care about you, that's her loss. You should be glad she's happy while moving on yourself. -
Breakups suck so hard, especially when the other person left you for someone else. I remember when that happened to me I felt so low, so very low and angry. I hated the person and told myself I'd never take them back or speak to them...but soon as they said hello I broke and tried to make it work again, I really wanted them back.It never happened.
You just need to except that its over and shes moved on already, if you really cared about her you'd be glad she was happy, she obviously wasn't happy with you if she left.It took me a while to except this fact and its not easy. You need to think about yourself and make yourself happy-don't mope around appreciate yourself.She is just one girl.Easier said than done, but I wish you luck. -
Yeah. I'm kinda past the stage to really want her back. I mean I still love the old her and I'm too weak right now so I may get back with her in a weak moment, but I know when I'm back on my feet I won't even consider her...in the last days when we were STILL TOGETHER, she asked me for advice on what to do if he asked her out...how can I be with such a person?
I'm not waiting around. I got a full time job, I'm learning Ukrainian, I started to play dota again...But the pain is still there. As if there is really a huge wound in my heart.
She wasn't the one for me, but I planned on keeping her... -
Ok so I just broke up with a guy that I went out with for 2 years. so it sounds like a veryyy similar situation but backwards cuz I'm the one who left him. annnd mostly for someone else :/ along with other reasons.
me and the guy I broke up with are friends now though. it took him a couple weeks of not seeing me and not talking to me. but when I saw him again we talked and he told me that it was really really hard for him, but he feels like he's stronger now and learned a lot. what he did in those two weeks was talk to people. he talked to his parents and to friends who all helped him out and comforted him. and he's glad we're still friends, he doesn't wanna hear about any other guys that's still too hard for him to hear. but he's moved on and said theres no way he'd get back with me now anyways that's why we can be friends.
anyways hopefully some part of this is helpful :/ :P
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