GUYS GUYS GUYS
- Locked due to inactivity on Aug 4, '16 4:29pm
Thread Topic: GUYS GUYS GUYS
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Can I ask what does this new guy have that your boyfriend doesn't?
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Its very nice to be obsessed again, I missed that XD but the worst part is that its not like in middle school when crushes were a secret and I was all shy and nothing happened because of it... me and him both know we like eachother and I've learned how to flirt without realizing it oops
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Oh xD
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@viktor a good mood :/ and a smile. and he talks to me.
my boyfriend doesn't talk much anymore. or smile. and I dunno if that's gonna go back to normal soon or not but I cant stand that. and I know he has depression so I've been as patient as I can be but its gotten way hard to do. all he ever wants to do when we hang out is sleep. he'd rather sleep then have sex, that's just not right for a guy -
Ok then I give you the permission to break up with him :P
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I'd feel so bad though, his depression keeps getting worse and stuff.. what if if I break up with him that makes him like....kill himself or something? or lock himself away even more? :/ and its sad to think of the good times we did have, even though theyre not there anymore.. ahhhggg.
and the new guy has a stupid addiction to smoking xP and he's so skinny and that's weird that used to be what I was into but now I feel like I could squish him too easy XD but he has the most amazing eyes... -
Why doesn't your boyfriend's depression get better? Sounds like if he gets better you would love him again...
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I am too young for a boyfriend
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@viktor, I don't know, he's on so many depression medications now that even if they start working he's more of a robot than a human.
and I dunno if I'd love him again if it got better, but I don't think its gonna get better..
but I have passed the point of no return now, I hung out with the new guy today and apparently it was a date because that's what he told his friends it was. and I may or may not have made out with him but that's not important anyways I drank a lil bit so I can always blame it on the alcohol ;P -
but I like the s--- outta him. THE s--- OUTTA HIM. I LIKE IT.
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I really want to give my opinion on this, but I know for a fact that it's not something you'd want to hear.
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Say it anyways
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You f---ing sicken me.
You obviously have no respect left for the guy you've been with for two years. And instead of admitting that to yourself and letting him go with as little pain as possible. You've been twisting the knife in his back and adding insult to injury with all this s--- you've been doing behind his back.
What's that I've heard from the other thread? You made out with the other guy? Alcohol or not, I'm ashamed of you Carla. I truly am.
Just reading this for the past couple days I've been trying to put myself in your actual boyfriend's shoes to see how I would feel if I were him.
If you have any shred of empathy left in you, why don't you give that a try? Tell me how that feels because I can tell you how it felt for me. f---ing dead inside. I don't even know the poor sucker you've hurt and I already feel an overwhelming sense of pity for the guy.
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You're cold and heartless and I am ashamed of you. I don't give a s--- if you want to be with the other guy, but have enough respect for your current boyfriend to break up first. -
Carla I've experienced it and I can tell you, being left for someone else is the worst kind of pain. The least you can do now is to stop seeing this new guy for a month or so (explain the situation to him) to gracefully end it with your boyfriend and respect the two years and the good times you had. Don't let him think you left him for someone else. This one month of waiting will actually add a lot to the quality of your new relationship and even yourself...
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Thank you Viktor for the advice
I broke up with my boyfriend, trying to end on good terms and stay friends. but he doesn't wanna talk to me anymore. when I was talking to him, I was telling him how I feel when I'm with him, with the way we don't even talk when we hang out, and he interrupted me and said "Carla, I know who you like." and I didn't ask him who he thinks it is or anything. and later in the day he texted me and said he has to talk to me in person to clear something up. so he picked me up and parked somewhere and didn't talk to me, but at me. very loudly. the way he talked at me didn't make me feel any sorry for him anymore. he was just really rude about it, and said some things I'll leave out then asked if either I wanna break up with him and he'll move on, he doesn't want me to come back to him after any time if we break up, or stay with him and we try to work things out (again..). so I just said "ok, then. I don't wanna be with you anymore"
and yeah. so that's done.
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