HEEELLLPPPPP!!!
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Thread Topic: HEEELLLPPPPP!!!
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PianoPerson99 NewbieOkay so there is this guy I really really like. He has a 'girlfriend' but his parents say he is not allowed to call it that but he can hold hands, and kiss, dance with her, etc. Well I don't really know him really well but I am good friends with his best friend so ZI normally hear this stuff. Well He (his name is Matt) hasn't really been doing a whole lot with her lately, like I haven't heard anything about the two of them since the 5th of Feb. this year. Okay well I still really like him. I thought I could get over him over Christmas Break but I can't. Anyway, we are both in band and at a band concert thing, he was talking to me (his 'girlfriend' isn't in band) and he was telling me all about how his part was a much harder part than his friend who is a really realllllllly good trumpet player. And he is always looking at me. laughs when I laugh. He always sits at the table next to mine at lunch no matter where I go. He is constantly showing off and has starting talking to me. I am so confused... I thought he had a girlfriend but now I am not so sure because he hasn't really been talking to her lately, its always been me these past couple of weeks. And since I like him, I didn't want to rush into something stupid just because I've had a crush on him since like forever. Please please please help me explain what's going on!! I am absolutely confused. He is really a nice guy, but I want a relationship with him that will last, not be the next thing and then over in less than a month.
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PianoPerson99 Newbiethanks for your help, sorry about some of the typos...
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How long do you want this relationship to last? A month? A year? A week? A lifetime?
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PianoPerson99 Newbieno just awhile.. not like a year, or a lifetime but longer than a month or even just a week
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How old are you?
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PianoPerson99 Newbieumm 15 why?
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Just curious for reasons you will now find out.
The younger you are, the more...pointless it is to be in a "relationship." If you're not planning on or wanting to marry the guy, then all you're doing is wanting temporary happiness. Going into a relationship meant for a short amount of time is like going into the store without money. Either you leave disappointed or you take something that's not yours. -
PianoPerson99 NewbieOkay I guess I can't argue with that! :) Well I mean I know I am young and I am not looking for a marriage proposel quite yet... but I am also not looking to be this weeks basketball star girlfriend and then next week I'm not... do you know what I mean?
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Yeah, I totally understand! And I'm not against dating or anything, but if all you want is the pleasure, then think about how your future husband will feel if he knew about all the guys that came before him. If you truly want to love your future husband, save yourself for him, and give him what you've never given anyone else on earth.
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PIANO!!!!! a soap is not something you can just randomly join into...people put up plots and make their characters. You need to ask, and you need to join in the beggining. Someone needs to teach this person the gtq rules.
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PianoPerson99 NewbieWell okay then! In these past 10 minutes I have been thinking and since his girlfriends don't last awhile, then maybe he isn't the guy for me. (You've opened my eyes!!) But if he asks me out or something like that, what should I say? How do you let a guy down easy?
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PianoPerson99 Newbie@letsbefriends fine
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PianoPerson, if he asks you out, just tell him that you're not ready to be in a relationship. Admit that you like him, you're just not ready.
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