Do you have strict parents? | Comments

Im just wondering what you think. Im almost 15 btw. So, my mom is pretty strict, abd it can kinda get weirdly strict. Like I understand the "no social media" & "no crop tops" and stuff, but let me just start with my clothing choices. The rule that bothers me most is "no leggings" rule. I cant wear leggings, the reason for this is because "its not for my age" or "im not grown". And whenever I pick out my clothes, she'll find a way to completly change the outfit or call what I picked out "ugly".

During my 8th grade gradution, I took a picture with "kiss lips" and my eyes looking up to the keft while standing straight forward. My mom got mad at me & said it was inapropriote, said I wouldn't understand.

Their were many times I was called out for "not being black" because I haven't seen or remember movies like "Friday" or "Martin".

Or heard "Soak City" or any other "Black music". When I ws in 7th or 6th grade I wouldnt be allowed to listen to certain Kidz Bop songs. One of them is "Trampoline".

I don't know, but for sone reason since I was 12, I was the main person my mom would look at when a lighter, or her "Swisher" would go missing. I got older one day & all of a sudden "I was smoking", "vaping", or "having sex". The amount of times I would be living my life & my mom would start accusing me is actually hurtful. "Im not a fool" & "don't let me find out" is what she says when I tell her im not doing anything. Im also not allowed to go to the food places or the park after school with my friends. Only school & The Teen Center.

My mom will tell me how she is proud of me, and im the best daughter, then she'll go to sleep & her vape and stuff will fall out her pocket and stuff, then blame me & my nine year old brother for "pick pocketting her".

When I was around 12-13 I was using face wash, then all of a sudden my mom decided i couldnt use it anymore. Im also not aloud to shave anywhere but under my arms. This makes it really diffcult

Im nearly 17, I get straight A's, I am an AP and honor student in the National Honor society at school, I am the Secretary of Key club, im in the Music Honors society, I don't so drugs, I don't drink, I don't go to high school parties, I rarely hang out with my friends, I get all my homework done on time, I play violin. I am the definition of a good kid, I don't swear or yell at my parents, I do what they ask. The other day they decided I watch too much TV, which honestly with all I have to do for school and violin is not even plausible, not to mention they all work everyday. I knew they were strict before but they've kicked it up randomly for no reason, literally no reason I mean we just finished winter break so I couldn't have done anything at school and I've been home. They changed the Netflix password and removed it from all of our devices and the TV and we can't get to it without the new password, they gave me a list saying that if I didn't practice violin a certain number of hours, clean my bathroom every week and a bunch of other stuff I would lose my driving provileges. They are always on me about everything, I get bombarded with texts "did you do your homework" "did you practice violin" "read that book I got you from the library" "make sure whatever you are doing right now is constructive" literally I'm being treated like I'm 7 and it's really brining the joy out of everything, the constant pestering to practice makes me not want to, I mean it's my favorite hobby but I don't want to be hounded about it. Telling me to read every hour makes it feel like a chore rather than a relaxing time. I mean the other day I decided to reread the hunger games instead of the book my mom got me and I got in trouble, like don't you want me to read I mean jeeez. I love my parents and all but back off, I could be 1000000x worse

im am 13 and my parents dont let me do anything . they always ask who im going out with (only friends) and if they arent super close with their parents then its a no. im so used to no at this point. i hate my parents to the point i dont eat anymore, and i cry myself to sleep every night without fail. they expect so much from me but im still a kid, i beg them to give me grace but nothing ever changes. im counting down the days until i leave for college. only 5 more years

My mom is totally strict! I'm 14 and I'm not allowed to date, have a facebook, post youtube videos, or go over to a friend's house. Thank god she lets me be on the computer... otherwise I would go completely insane. >.>

My parents are strict. I'm fourteen and I am not aloud to watch R rated movies and my curfew is about seven o' clock. It's a good think I'm one of those people who is on the computer half the time.

I have overly strict parents, I turn 17 in 3 months and ive been saving for an apartment so the day i graduate im moving out. they make so many rules for everything and then change them when i make a small mistake just to punish me. for example, i was at my boyfriends house (they think were just dating cuz i cant have a boyfriend) and i had to be home by 11:59 and on my way home there was a car that almost hit me and it scared me then they were going 25 below the speed limit, it was a one lane road so i couldnt pass them. when i tried telling my parents what happened they just said i should have left sooner. how was i supposed to know this was going to happen?? then i went to bed and the next day they said im grounded all day when i promised my boyfriend i would go to his lax game. they wait up for me to come home every night. and they never told me i was going to be grounded until i was getting ready about to leave for the game. this crushed my soul and they wouldnt let me text him that i couldnt make it so i feel super bad and i still dont have my phone because they keep making excuses. ive been having sleeping problems for the past 6 months and they wont let me take melitonin because they think its the same thing as marijuana. so i have a hard time waking up and getting to school on time. i have all a´s so why are they getting mad about me getting to school late. ive tried having sit down talks about me needing to see a sleep doctor or someone to help with my panic attacks or ptsd attacks but they say nothings wrong and that mental health problems are not real and are just excuses. please help me find ways to help them trust me more i really need all the help i can get. please, and thank you

i am 12 i am sad and loney i am not allowed to any friends as they think she is a distraction i am not allowed to date,i cant wear the clothes i want,they are so strict they took 1300 kms away from my home i have secret discord account to talk bff and my parents dont know abt it.if u want to be my friend my discord account is divina.raina#8065.i m supposed to get all As in school , iam not allowed to listen to music and my mok found abt my bf so she broke me up with him my dad is always comparing me with kids like what other kids are doin i am queer and my parents dont know i a totall messd up pls help me

My mom will NOT let me have a boyfriend until I finish collage! I currently in 7th grade but, I have a boyfriend ;3 They don't know and I'm never telling them.

Average parents. That's very true. My mom isn't overly strict yet she still takes control when she needs to. (I never see my dad, so he doesn't matter.) Good quiz! :D

For me, it's always the Dad. I have a step dad and he was really nice before. and now he changed so much. he becomes very strict and scary. I told mum that he has changed also but mum didn't really care what I told her.

My parents are SOOO let loose. If I ask my mom if I can have a sleepover, she just says whatever, it's up to the other mom. They let me do whatever I want! I love my parents!

Really? Well I just slapped my narcissistic ass dad so hard in the face that he just fell on the ground. (He is dead) I'm not getting any pulses from him so yeah I am going to run away from home now and go to mexico (I'm 15 btw)

lol my Dad's the strict one. he won't even let me date and i'm 13! i can't go past the yard. i can't walk across the street to the park or anything. it's really sad. but they hardly ever lock the computer! with out the internet i'd be insane.

I'm a trans boy under sixteen years old, and I'm not sure if my parents are good or not. I'm autistic and have ADHD.

To start, I was adopted by my biological cousin and her husband. I'm the sixth kid they had. As of now, my mom's 54 and my dad's 59.

If I mouth off to my mom, she'll wait for me to turn my back to her and then she'll swat me on the butt. If I don't, she'll usually hit my arms or anywhere in her range. And that's just the physical. When I bring this up to her afterward, she'll either call it a 'love tap' or deny it ever happened. Granted, I am extremely snarky. Any attempt at sharing my identity with my parents is shut down.

My father is a lot less scary to me. I feel a lot more safe sharing things with him than I do with her. He avoids any conflicts between me and my mother.

its mostly my dad who is strict. I'm 14 btw. I have to go to bed by 8:30 or 9, i have Life 360 on my phone, and i get grounded a lot. Whenever i 'have an attitude' or do anything wrong I get yelled at and grounded.. i do my best i school but i get mediocre grades so yeah. im f---ing tired :(

My dad is the strict one. He doesn't let me wear shorts, and dresses. If I bring it up he yells at me. He doesn't even let my mom wear them. How do I change his mind?

My parents aren't really *strict*. I think I had strict parents, and I have anxiety, so yeah.

I’m 13 and I can’t even wear jeans outside and when I’m on my phone I feel like my mums gonna take it so I hid it, like I’m a Muslim so I have to cover my hair and even if there’s a bit of my hair showing she’s goes crazy like tf. THERE ARE GIRLS AT THEIR WHO DONT WEAR SCARVES LIKE ARE U f---ING DUMB AND THEY WEAR JEANS AND STUFF THERE SO LUCKY ITS CRAZY BUT IDC WHEN IM 16 I DO WHAT I WANT 🤣🤣

Let-loose, which is kind of true. I live with my mom, and she's definitely loose. My dad is a different story, though.

ya i agree with firey soul. she banned me fromgoing outside, facebook, have a phone! the last thing she will do is to get me banned from my bestfriend. wait she did! and im even in a girl school! then she banned me from my bestfriend! because of my bestfriend im happy! only if i was banned from her! ok loljk. just make her nicer

Let loose parents, true

I have to do homework in summer!!!!

My parents are not strict. That's very true

Average parents...That's true! C:

let-loose...? i mean, my parents r strict 'bout what i wear (like, no sleevless shirts, shorts, mini-skirts, shirts w/ long neck-thing