My personality is apparently as boring as f---...
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Today my friends told me that they don't like hanging out with me because apparently I'm way too boring and logical to hang out with. I got mildly offended by that.
So, I'm not hyperactive... I'm not funny, or random. I can't find myself to BE hyper, funny or random. I like to read. I don't like to be loud and the student who is the badass and always talking in class. I'm the one who's the teachers pet, gets all the straight As and enjoys going to the library. I'm not the one who is always partying and jumping up and down all day.
At first I never thought of my personality as "boring". I thought of myself of shy, NOT talkative and I hate talking about a random topic. I'm logical and scientific. Apparently I lost 5 friends today because of my personality.
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Tearstruck NewbieI am like that too. All I can say is, look for some other friends who will actually accept you for who you are.
f---, I don't see any reason why being the person you are is bad. And don't change your personality just to fit in. Although, I can totally relate to you. -
You sound like a girl from my class. It would be so weird if your name was Chanel :P I have a few friends like that. But I don't consider them as ''boring''. They are more...smart, quiet, sensible, logical etc. Those 5 of your ''friends'' are being dickheads. Find some new friends! I would personally punch those so-called ''friends'' in their face if they ever say that to me.
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Thank you Tearstruck and Kirby for the coherent advice. I appreciate it.
The problem is that, I don't think anyone in my class would want to be friends with someone with a boring personality. Please, I know I'm boring and don't tell me I'm not. I'm boring compared to those bubbly, fun and hyperactive girls in my class who everyone is just wanting to be best friends with them.
I've never been really sociable, so starting fresh to make friends...isn't very comforting at the thought. -
fallen_angel831 NewbieDont worry I sure some one is just like u I am but I'm just a little off.... Plus everyone is unique no matter wat some/alot of people are the same u really don't need them its only 5/millions of people who said it so they don't matter compared to the world
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This isn't particulary a "boring" personality,but you can definitely act more like your age.You don't have to be super hyper or talkative,only a little smile when someone makes a joke or being nice and friendly will do it.Also try hanging with different people or doing some sports.I hope it will help.
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I get told the same,and I'm not even smart or anything.I'm just boring cause I'm quiet and shy,and weird.I lost a lot of friends cause of it in the past.I have two other friends who still stick with me and they are the best people I know,they don't mind me being quiet.They except me as who I am and I'm having a blast with them.
I'm in the same boat as you really,when I was in school I was pretty much a loner cause of who I was,it really hurt to know the people who I thought would stick with me no matter what would leave me for something so little like for not being as exciting or active as they are.
My advice would to look for better people who understand and are pretty lay back and chill. -
Or stick to your hobbies,have fun on your own is what I do when I'm alone.And find people with the same interest as you,don't say there isn't anyone like that.I thought the same before I met my friends.
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Thank you everyone, including fallen_angel, Viktor and 6_6sick, kirby and tearstruck!
It has really helped! ^.^
I met someone in the library yesterday...lol :O (you know) -
Dude, if they don't like you the way that you are, you need some new friends.
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You need to surround yourself with people like yourself. They will appreciate all that is so called "boring".
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