My Venting Thread
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Thread Topic: My Venting Thread
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Shattered. Broken. Torn apart.
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Right now, I really don't see the reason for trying,
or for talking,
or for breathing.
I'm just done. -
I feel hated.
I want to die...
I clearly wasn't born to feel loved, or wanted. -
Hate my life
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Of course you don't. If you did, you wouldn't leave so soon. Or at least give us somewhere to contact you. I wouldn't be that cruel. But, why am I not surprised. Maybe because you've been shutting out our opinions on the thought of you leaving, and have been continuously talking about it. Which really hurts.
No offense, but... I feel really hurt and betrayed by this. Maybe I should start avoiding/ignoring Cats17 to avoid hurting both her and I. -
I'm lacking context, but I would like to butt in and point out that Cat's message is full of guilt tripping. They are trying to make you feel bad (guilty) for a decision you're trying to make. Don't let them have that power over you.
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I know she was trying to guilt-trip me, but I really do feel guilty.
I just wanted to let them know, so it won't be so sudden..
Thank you, Dark. :3 -
The choice to leave is ultimately up to you. I have come and gone from the site a few times. It can be liberating to leave it behind.
However, I will say, if you value the friendships here, it may be worth it to stick around. As long as you communicate with your friends and work together to have a healthy friendship, it's worth it.
I personally regret cutting my friends off out of a fear that they'd turn on me or hurt me. It's much better to stick it out rather than leaving them behind and listening to your internal paranoia. -
Thank you so much :'D
I love all my friends on here, but sometimes I feel as if they only use me, or are trying to hurt my mental health even more.
I have trust issues, which has led me to believe nobody shoyld be trusted. At all times, I keep my guard up, even if I don't need to.
I know I'm not the only one, though. :3 -
Sometimes, those feelings are valid. This site especially seems to harbor both good-willed and ill-willed people. The only thing you can do is reach out to your friends and talk to them about it.
The ones who care will be patient and understanding; they'll be willing to talk about the friendship and come up with ways you guys can mutually benefit each other. Those are the people worth your trust. -
Thank you so much...
Do I just ask "Are you a traitor"? -
Haha, no! But you can ask questions like:
What are your long-term goals for our friendship?
Do you think we could do x, y, or z (replace xyz with things that would reassure you that you guys are friends)? -
Thank you so much! :'3
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