how do i become less of an easy target to make fun of
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Thread Topic: how do i become less of an easy target to make fun of
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maybe by forgiving people around u and standing up for urself so it doesnt happen again. i dont really know sorry
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Standing up for yourself is the biggest thing.
Do not loose your cool. Whatever you do, do not loose your cool.
Show them your logic in what you're doing, why you're doing, it, and so on, if they're making fun of you for something like that.
Or say some things that disproves what they've said.
Do your best not to get in an argument.
If you can't think of anything on the spot that disproves it, just say something like, "You know, the bad traits that someone says about someone else is usually a trait they have themselves."
Or say a phrase or a saying that means the same thing. I just woke up and am writing this so I can't think of any specific ones right now. If you do do thay, though, I'd recommend you don't say it with any sort of rhythm,if you know what I mean, or anything like that. They might say that you're repeating nursery rhymes to them, or something if you say it with a sort of rhythm.
Or if you have trouble thinking things up on the spot, think of something you can say to them that will get them every time. If they notice you're repeating it and say something about it, just say that it still applies.
They'll stop trying to make fun of gou, because it's simply not working. They might do it more, though, just to try and get.you. But it'll just start coming naturally for you to do this. You start seeing their wheels turning when you say something and you'll find it amusing. Also when they get angry that they can't think of anything to counter what you said is rather funny too.
There was a kid in my class a few years ago who was such an easy target you couldn't even imagine it. Every time someone made fun of him, he'd just go BOOM and get so angry and argue and yell at them. And nothing he said made the least bit of sense.
It made him even more of an easy target, because they knew they could get to him even more.
So these are the things that I do, and it works great for me. This might not work for you, but I have yet to see it fail.
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