How do you become sure of your sexuality?
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Thread Topic: How do you become sure of your sexuality?
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I know I've liked guys and whatever and I have a boyfriend...
But I've been thinking about girls a lot and they seem to get to me in a different way from before. How do I become sure that yes, I do, like both guys and girls? -
You're probably bi-curious.
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It has nothing to do with sexual experiences. :s
I think I'm bisexual but I have honestly no clue how to be sure of that. -
Well, maybe you're just questioning for now. Sexuality isn't something that you could just suddenly find or figure out. You just have to give it some time. Be patient with yourself.
Honestly, could you see yourself being with a woman? Having relations with a woman? Being married to a woman, kissing her, hugging her in an intimate way, etc.? You know, stuff you'd do with your boyfriend? If you answered yes to all of these, you nay be bisexual.
But there's also other sexualities that you could look into. Find which one you feel most comfortable with identifying yourself with. Or you could simply not go by any label, if you like that. -
If you don't mind explaining your feelings to people who ask, and don't mind not having a box, you don't need a label. Just do you and figure out who you are.
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*figure out who you are, gradually.
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I did indeed answer them all as yes :s
This has been a question for like 2 years now xS
I thought I'd ask for your opinions.
THANK YOU!! -
Okay, so I know I'm bisexual. I think I've finally established that.
how do i go about telling my friend :s -
You show them this, and when they're like oooooh that's really pretty and ask what it is, you say "it's Bi. like me. I'm bisexual surprise!!!" and yeah
No but actually you should probably evaluate the situation and determine how you think they'll respond, going about it in a serious way is usually the best (unless you have a friendship like that or, like me, you can't actually say it out loud). -
You should probably not tell them unless you're planning to eventually f--- one of them. That's what a normal person does. After all, I've never told my friends my sexuality, it doesn't really matter.
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