I need advice.
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Thread Topic: I need advice.
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Okay, so many of you guys know I'm Bisexual. I've known that I've been attracted to girls since I was in third grade. I used to have this crush on this girl back then. I was pretty young about eight? If I remember correctly. We were in the same classroom. I once even drew her this picture of a dog. Our teacher was obsessed with dogs so she had posters of them all around her classroom. So I tried to draw the prettiest one for her. I'm pretty sure she took it as a friendly gift. And in a way it was. Anyways, that's pretty much the only way I acted upon these feelings toward girls at that age. I ignored my feelings as the years passed. Once I was in sixth grade they became stronger but still I was able to controll them. Seventh grade came and well I learned what 'bisexual' was and I was in complete denial. Eighth grade rolled by and well I just couldn't hide my feelings. I felt those butterflies in my stomach when I saw both the crush I had on a lady as well as a gentlemen. About six months ago I 'came out' to one of my friends and slowly to my other closest friends.
I need help telling my mom this. Like advice on how to tell her.
Being totally honest here she thinks I'm homosexual.
The problem is I'm still scared she will reject me in a way. Her boyfriend is well extremely homophobic. He just has issues when it comes to same sex relationships.
Me and my dad don't have a good relationship. So I'm not sure if I should tell him or not. I'm not sure what's his opinion on same sex relationships.
I'm pretty sure that when I tell my mom that I'm bisexual I'll have less of a problem telling other people what I am.
Advice? -
Her boyfriend needs to fellate himself.
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I'd just slowly come out like you did with friends.Or do what this one kid did..walk into a closet and come out of it and say'Guys I'm Gay' or bisexual in your case.
I didn't have a problem telling my aunt,she just slowly figured it out herself.Then when I brought home my boyfriend that pretty much broke the ice.She was okay with it :P Good luck to you,and be proud of who you are. -
@Appay Agreed.
@Sick Thanks for the advice. ^-^
Your aunt is cool.
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