I don't feel sympathy for my parents...
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Thread Topic: I don't feel sympathy for my parents...
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My brother is really nasty. They- my brother and parents- have been fighting and arguing over everything for 3 years now. They never understand each other. The times when the drama is in heat, my father goes all emotional and dramatic being on the verge of cry. When I see him like this, instead of feeling sympathetic, I feel disgusted. Yes disgusted. He makes drama over simple things that can be solved easily with a good talk. "You are not my son anymore!!!" "Forget that you had a father!!!1"
Examples of his words. Why on earth did you make children when you can't handle them? I swear to god that feeding your child and providing a home for him doesn't mean you're a perfect father. There's SO MUCH more to being a good parent.
I feel bad. He's a really good man. He tries hard to earn money and spend it for us but it's just not enough. He's destroyed his life. -
It's okay bro. You're not alone. The same thing happens to my mother as well. It might be because of the fact that their mind and thoughts are way different than our teenage minds. I got used to it after all the s---, eventhough it bothers me as hell.
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Thank you for caring Lily.
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That must be hard for your dad. He seems to take a lot of effort. He must love you lots :)
It seems that you have a image of the 'perfect' dad in your mind and your dad isn't meeting the 'guidelines'. Teenagers and adults are so different and sometimes this makes feeling sympathetic really hard. -
I understand him. I know it's hard for him but he just doesn't do the simple right things.
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:) I know I SUCK at giving advices, but I always try to be there for my friends.
Just try to care less about the things that happen. Trust me caring less makes you feel better. And stop thinking too much about the things he says. Sometimes parents say stupid things without thinking. -
Seriously. My dad is the one who needs advice :P
Yeah. Fortunately we don't argue much. No drama for me.
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