My thread:3
Thread Topic: My thread:3
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She's trying. Have you not seen the posts about saving up money? Medication and therapy is expensive. I had to drop mine because my family couldn't afford it. Not everyone has the ability to work and make money and afford what is honestly a luxury in this country.
You have been toxic too, you know. We all have. But people can only get better when you really work with them and their disorders. And that's OK if you don't want to. But I do. I know what it's like to be alone and have a headspace that's makes it hard to live. -
I don't enjoy anger or aggression. I'm going to therapy because of it.. Would you like to take a step back and read what I'm saying without firing off your mouth, or is it just too easy for you to take down the person trying to speak maturely to you??
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she's been saying that for years, Jillian. YEARS. She spends her money on stuff that she doesn't need and wonders why she can't save up to get HELP.
I know im toxic. but im nowhere near the same level of toxic she is and will always be. I can't say that I relate to loneliness anymore. but you were there for me when I was suicidal last year and you helped me through that when I felt alone. but god gave me friends. new friends. and ive been trying to be better for them. -
its fine. im starting to calm down anyway
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but I will say this:
I don't regret saying the things I said. I truly believe she will never get better. that she'll always be toxic. and I'll always see her as a terrible person. -
Weed does help. She isn't the only one on this website, let alone on the planet, that uses weed as a coping mechanism. Just because you don't like it doesn't mean it's an OK investment. Yeah, some of the other things are not helpful, but even I've spent money on things I didn't need because it made me happy for just a moment. We're human.
I never said you were at the same level. I intentionally didn't because there are levels of toxicity and I'm aware of that. I was merely reminding you that we ALL have done s---ty things to each other.
I hope that you really are working on it. I hope that none of them ever go through the things that you and I did, and that you've learned to communicate and not punish them when you're angry or upset. -
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im not against weed. my bro takes some. I just think that isn't a top priority.
yeah, we all have. but no offense (I know you're trying to make a point and I took note of it) but ive never blackmailed any of you or put y'all through that kind of abuse. and its gotten to the point where blaming it on disorders is not okay. sorry, but its not. -
harassment in general is NOT OK.
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and its def not okay to let it slide bc of "disorders"
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I never said that harassment, abuse, or blackmailing is okay. I never condoned it. In fact, I've tried very hard to make it clear that I am disappointed as to what's happened. But I'm trying to make it obvious that I'm working with her so that she finds a better outlet. That's all I wanted to say.
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Don't put disorders in quotation marks.
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noted.
but its sad that you're the one cleaning this up when it had nothing to do with you. and tbh im proud to say that its me and not "Carla" or any other coming to my rescue. -
I chose to get involved because sometimes, people make mistakes. And they need time to breathe and process their mistakes. I knew that if someone wasn't responding to you, you may continue to post in her thread, and the situation would get worse.
Once again, I am going to stress that her actions were not right. You did not deserve it. But I think some of the things you said to her equally reflect back to you, and I wanted you to take note of that so you could continue to grow. -
no offense, but I don't see and will never see how that would equally reflect back to me.
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