I just need someone to talk to...
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Thread Topic: I just need someone to talk to...
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One of my best guy friend never answers my texts. My best friend...well...she judges me most of the time. My other best guy friend...well...my ex...I can never talk to him because he is one of my problems. I can't talk to any of my family members because they don't get me. I just don't know what to do with myself.
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I guess no one on here talks either...
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Best guy friend: Call him. Or maybe something's up with him?
Best Friend: Everybody judges others, there's no way to avoid it. But, if it makes you uncomfortable to tell her, then either drop her or don't share with her.
Ex: Well.... awkward...
Family: That's life. Sad to say, parents rarely understand...
Not trying to give lessons, just ideas. Hope it might help, even if it probably won't.
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problem 1: contact him some way other than texting
problem 2: she's not your best friend if she constantly judges you all the time
problem 3: what? -
Okay...
Guy Friend #1: He is my ex from 2 years ago. We are best friends though. I know he still loves me. But he gets me. He just never answers his phone when I try and call him or text him. I don't know why.
Best Friend: She hurts me when she judges me. I just feel like I can't tell her anything without being called "crazy".
"Best guyfriend" (ex): He has been my ex for only a few weeks. He broke up with me because he wasn't ready but he promised me we could remain very close friends. He hasn't talked to me since.
Parents: I never feel comfortable telling them anything without me getting lectured and I always get put down by there "advice".
I can't talk to ANYONE!!!
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Well you can talk to us on gtq. If she judges you she's not a good friend. Have you talked to them in person?
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They aren't friends. That's kinda pathetic...sorry to say.-.-'
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Yeah...but it's summer and I don't see them much.
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I know. No one understands me so they refuse to be my friend
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Guy Friend 1: Go visit him. That might help.
Best Friend: Eh, I know how you feel. But, nobody's perfect: I'm sure she's special somehow. But, don't talk to her if she's gonna judge, it's not worth it.
Best Guy Friend 2: Try to contact him. If he still won't answer his calls, etc. then maybe he's still getting over you. Give him time...
Parents: Don't take it personally, but screw 'em. Not literally, of course. That would be awkward...
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@Nikki Thanks. about my best guyfriend 2...he said he still liked me
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1. You need to talk to their face. Don't just resort to texting or any other 'online' service to keep in touch. Actually meet up somewhere and do something with eachother. Like bowling or mini golf.
2. If she judges you, she's not your best friends. Best friends are people you can trsut with anything who will always stick by your side. This girl lacks both of those things, and I don't think it's a good idea to hang around her if she brings you down.
3. Your family: you need to sit down and (as much as this sounds like those crummy old advice books) have a heart to heart chat. Tell them how you feel; it might change the way things are said in the future so they don't put you down. If you don't speak up, they won't know what they're doing to you. -
Aww, about Guy Frined 2, that sucks more for him then for you. Like I said: Give him time... maybe he'll get over you... maybe. ;)
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but i like him back. he's the ex that was super recent.
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