Road
- Locked due to inactivity on Nov 30, '22 3:54am
Thread Topic: Road
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Frankly, I didn't feel like going back and forth over s--- with you, last night, and I still don't. Don't feel the need to reply to this. This is all I have to say and I'll leave you alone afterwards.
I wasn't vague posting about you. I was being open and clear. I didn't post in the deletion thread because it was irrelevant to deleting a post. I didn't post in your thread because, unlike you, if I sense you're upset or things may not be okay, I don't barge into yoyr thread and say anything whatever I think should be plastered on your page when you're highly uncomfortable because I just basically agreed that there is absolutely nothing wrong with hate speech.
I don't hate you, but I don't agree with how you responded on the matter. If you truly don't care about someone constantly saying they have a bias against a country for no good reason, then how do I know you'd even care if someone said they had a bias against black people or anyone else? It's the same thing. You might not think it is, but it's the same thing. I'm disappointed that when I stated that, your answer was that you didn't care. Is it because you're not Japanese? Is it because there are no Japanese people here (to your knowledge) to defend themselves or say for themselves that's a problem? Racism, discrimination, and hate speech is all the same, no matter who its aimed at and who's present to hear it. I sadly don't feel I could trust you as a friend because you brushed that off.
I can't trust that if someone said something like that about me, and I wasn't here to hear it, you would care.
You made me highly uncomfortable, and I don't want you in any of my threads anymore. I'm terrified to consider myself a friend with anyone who "particularly [doesn't] care" about this. You gave no second thought, no consideration, and no hesitation on what you said, so you truly don't care.
So think about why it's suddenly okay to have unwarranted biases against countries. If you find the reason, I don't want to know, but as I've already stated, you need to reconsider how you think about and view certain things. Don't have a "f----that-because-it's-not-me" mentality.
If you ever see the problem here, if, I'm willing to listen if you want to tall to me, then. Otherwise, don't talk to me. You addressed none of the a actual issue and only defended yourself, yesterday, so I don't see it in your heart to take this seriously. You've let me down and mishandled my trust in a way that will not be easy to smooth over. If you truly think you're in the right, that's your opinion; stick with it, but don't talk to me. I don't even feel comfortable talking to you in private, anymore. And please delete your post you made in the thread, yesterday. While it doesn't break any forum rules, your post is not welcome. -
I also want to state one last time my pronouns are xe/xem/xyr(s), and I do use he/him, from time to time, but xe/xem is still largely advised unless otherwise stated.
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Hi Raiden.
After talking with a few others about this, I've come to the conclusion that I was in the wrong here. I was regarding this as the same type of weird patriotism Americans display and didn't see how it was any worse. But if an American said the same things about any other culture, they'd be giving me bad vibes and I failed to consider that. I do apologize for brushing you off. I have no excuse, just a lack of tact on my end.
I'm sorry, is my point.
That said, even if you decide you can forgive me for this, I don't want you to unblock me. Please don't post in my threads, either, unless you need me as a mod. I can explain if you need me to, but beyond answering whatever questions you might have in order to feel like you've had any closure you might need, we're done on my end.
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