In regards to my friend
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Thread Topic: In regards to my friend
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I called my friend to check on them yesterday and they told me what happened here, regarding them and two other users. After looking over it, I agree with them that this appeared to be a targeted attack on their character and possibly a way to get them removed from the site. I noticed the post one user made talking about my friend before asking the other user involved to talk to them privately about something. That post was made before my friend made the posts that were later on referenced as "triggers". During the time of my friend's posts, we were on the phone and they were playing Super Smash Bros., using Sephiroth. I know my friend is obsessed with Sephiroth and will sometimes role-play like him. I noticed my friend used their Sephiroth account until they had finished playing Smash. While we were on the phone, they would make dark jokes as if they were Sephiroth, even quoting him, at times. Reading through their posts, I see some quotes from Sephiroth. My friend was role-playing and that was reported as a trigger. And instead of finding out if they were okay, since you found that behavior concerning, you, from what I've been told, had someone tell them basically that they need to stop. My friend took this as an attack on character since the users said that my friend always talks about killing people and was painted as a potential threat as if they were a killer. My friend was upset because no one spoke out against these claims that are clearly false, as I've yet to find day-after-day posts about them wanting to kill people. I can understand why my friend believes this was a planned attack, since the two who spoke in private were the only two who brought this up as a problem. I see past posts of the same behavior and none of it was reported triggering, then. I see some posts that go back before either of these users were really active and no one had a problem with it, then. Even if it really is a trigger to the two, they or an adult should have addressed my friend in a calm and respectful manner instead of telling them to just stop, no questions asked. It really does seem discriminating that this happened but, when my friend asked for the user not to post about them anymore, the user immediately did it afterwards and no one even removed that post. It does seem discriminating to see how the issue of Elizabeth2 was handled. My friend showed me the screenshots. If this is what has been going on whenever my friend has an issue, I really do believe that there is serious fault in the process of how these issues are handled. My friend was highly upset from all of this, and while they didn't ask me to come here and say anything, I decided to because it's what friends do. But, they won't answer their phone anymore, so I'm really concerned about them.
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Please explain to me how respectfully asking a user to stop talking violently on a site shared by minors after a direct complaint about that behavior FROM A MINOR is a targeted attack. Because I think you're both being ridiculous.
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Everyone here has blown this way out of proportion. There is no ploy to get xem off the site. It literally should have been so simple. Just respect other users triggers and move on.
This drama is completely unnecessary. If you want to actually resolve it maybe pm the people who you feel have wronged you and don't vague post on the forum to create more tension. -
Wait, if the two people who talked in private are me and quizmaster12345, then you're wrong. We never spoke about you.
We were speaking about the profile pic they posted and now you go make assumptions that were were talking about you. I knew nothing about this. -
I'm not sure i'm reading this correctly, but i never said anything about you. You're just overreacting, and thinking everything we said is about you because it isn't.
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