Were gonna have a good day
Thread Topic: Were gonna have a good day
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I need to rant a minute
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because I promise I'm not shaming people but I thjnk I'm allowed to be annoyed sometimes and I get that its just society making girls like this but at some point they have some agency too
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ugh but I feel bad for it
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ok nvm saw smt i need to talk abt it rn
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It's been said so many times but I'm like actually agreeing with it
Like I know people hate those girls in high school that everybody loves, and I literally defend them every time because you can't just hate somebody because they've got friends and a sweet personality
NO
THESE PPL DO NOT HAVE SWEET PERSONALITIES
genuinely especially where I am these are the girls who believe that women shouldn't have rights and think that they're entire existence is for men. And again I know it's society or whatever, but they're still choosing to put down other girls to gain validation from men. At one point they've realized what they're doing but they still do it.
And then I always defend them because they're nice to me or whatever but literally they're not nice people. I really can care less how sweet they act towards me but girl bye it's all so fake.
There are some people that are genuinely sweet who really wouldn't hurt you, but then there are the fake people who would 100% leave you with some guy at a party if it was easier for them. It's just like those kinds of people and especially since this year I've become more aware of how messed up the relationships between men and women are (like some guys think that women only exist for them, or vice versa, how women think that they only exist for men).
And especially because I feel like I've educated myself on that, I keep noticing how some girls constantly seek the attention of guys. -
And it's even more frustrating that they get that validation. I keep telling myself to just keep powering through the rest of high school because none of it will matter in college or beyond that, but high school is just so f---ing stupid.
Like be friends with who you like, date someone that you have something real with, support each other. It's not hard to be a nice person but why are all the girls who swear they're kind and loving and perfect literally awful people. Seriously they're so ignorant and at this point I am 100% blaming them for it. They're not in lower school anymore where they just believe in whatever their parents believe. This is like the time to really look at the world and realize some truths and people just keep being ignorant. -
and I swear they act sweet because people are attracted to genuine and kind people, so they try to imitate that by being like:
"I love love."
"Kindness over everything"
"I love old people <3"
"Always be kind"
b---- shut the f--- up I am tired of your bulls--- a real kind person would never try to show off their morals and values -
And yea I know that I'm not super nice and I don't always say the nicest things but I don't put down other girls
And again with the trend thing of being kind-
Ever since being a girls girl became popular on social media, all of these fake ass people have started trying to act like one
but I guarantee you when that stops being a thing, then some of these girls are just gonna be the people that they actually are -
But not to say this about everyone- because I know a lot of girls that are amazing and would never ever intentionally do anything mean to anyone else.
But alsooo I guarantee that the people that you consider popular- yes they're prolly not the nicest people -
Because you can only go so far by being a nice person
And I feel like this works as a good analogy:
You have two people, A and B, both doctors. Doctor A is a good doctor, Doctor B is also a good doctor. Except B is lowkey kinda a crappy person and because they want to make more money, they don't always do what's best for their patients and sometimes prescribe them things that they don't need or try to get them to pay them even more money -
And obviously Doctor B is making more money, but at the expense of being a good person. And even though Doctor A makes less money, they don't scam their patients.
It's kind of like how some rich people make their money authentically, but a lot of incredibly wealthy people have done something that's really f---ed up to become that rich.
And that's why I seriously believe that you can't compromise your values (I feel like some people wouldn't have them to begin with), because even if you don't get as far, you're still a good person -
I've always steered around the topic of popularity because it makes me uncomfortable ngl. I hate talking about it because it still feels like something that impacts my life so much, and it's not like I'm out of high school still talking about it.
And I used to be a popular person, not entirely but maybe a bit below because I had a lot of friends and was just a social person in general. Now I still have a lot of friends, maybe less than before, but I still have the same amount of support. I've found people that I love so much and that's what really counts.
And I've gotten over it. Like at this point I don't care about popularity and I'm really just interested in being friends with whoever I want to. But it sucks to see so many people that still consider it so important because they're gonna go to college and realize how pointless it is. -
Also what was annoying me the other day
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I had a hockey game yesterday and another school was at the same rink because they had a game prior to mine. We were walking in, and it was an all boys team, but we came early because we thought the game started earlier. Coach told us to watch the guys play because our locker room was literally right there, and honestly it's just fun to watch hockey. Some teammates and I were just watching they're technique and blah blah blah
And it shouldn't piss me off as much as it does, but there's an entire student section there. It's an all boys school so most of them were guys, except from some girls who had come from an all girls one.
And when I tell you idk why but it f---ing annoys me. Like I understand the guys there because they're supporting their friends, and I promise I'm not a pick me girl, but there were just girls wandering around the rink. And obviously I know they're not there to watch hockey because they clearly didn't know anything about it, and they were just there to watch the guys.
I get football games or Friday basketball games, but hockey? Hockey isn't a big thing where I am, like most of the schools don't even have it, so obviously no one is really into it. And trust me when I say I know that those girls were there to talk to the guys.
And I know J sound so judgy but let me make my point
The rink was 30 minutes away from their school and they couldn't take any buses bc they're not on hockey teams, so they would have had to drive out there.
And the image of them driving half an hour away to watch guys play ice hockey while knowing nothing about it and hardly even knowing the people playing drives me actually insane -
And I just wish that they wouldn't need that validation because they would be better without it
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