I'll tbh u
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Thread Topic: I'll tbh u
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Emy:
I used to respect you. I still have at least, that basic level of respect for you, the same way i do anybody else however I'm not really sure how I feel about you outside of that tbh. I think you have a lot of internal struggles and aspects of your personality you need to see for yourself and fix. When people criticize you, it feels to me like you rush to defend yourself or play the victim rather than take their advice in as them trying to help and learn from it. Or you'll get snappy and rude. You're very defensive. I think you're also quite manipulative and bitter. I often wonder if you hide behind aesthetics and a persona you created to present online, perhaps because you struggle with your identity and accepting yourself.
You sometimes lash out at people and point fingers or argue when people don't deserve to be treated like that at all. I think sometimes you mistreat people honestly. But you're young so I believe you can change and become the best version of yourself and I hope that you will take time to look at yourself and see the areas where you need to grow and improve on. We're all human so we all have areas we can constantly improve on and grow from. You have a lovely aesthetic though and I can tell you're very intelligent. I hope that intelligence helps you with any academic ambitions you may have and honestly I wish you the very best in the regard
Cinnamon:
Tbh, I dont know much about you but you seem like a bubbly and sweet personality. I know you like mha and we should totally talk about that some time!! Because I like it too. I really wish I had more to say but honestly I'm not too familiar w you 😠I'd love to get to know you more though! You seem like a lovely person and you're a pleasure to have around the site :) -
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Cats:
Sometimes you came across very defiant and cruel. You're quick to insult people who don't agree with you and I think these are areas you need to work on. You seem to have quite the temper on you as well, and sometimes you seem to let your emotions get the most of you. In the past, you were pretty toxic, and I hope you have improved from that. I have seen growth however, so I think you're improving but I think there's still more growth that could be done. And honestly though, the chats I've had with you have been fun and humorous. You've had your down moments obviously, but also your ups. And you're very young so I definitely believe you'll continue to grow and learn as time goes on, you just have to continue to take those steps forward. You know how to goof around though and I think you're an interesting person to talk to :) i enjoy your company actually. It's been a pleasure getting to know you more recently and I hope we can continue to chat more in the future
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Ello:
Its such a shame we dont chat more often! You're so mature and kind, I really appreciate the conversations we have with each other, even though we dont talk very often. you've always been a user I've admired. Sometimes I find myself wondering how you are honestly.
Sometimes I also feel you beat yourself up too much, and honestly I'm guilty of doing the same thing too, but I hope one day you're able to find that confidence and love for yourself inside of you. Because you're definitely an amazing person who deserves that kindness from you. It's a pleasure to see you posting again and contributing to the community, I think you are positive influence to those around you. I hope that you're doing alright these days. I feel like I've known you or were friendly w you since my beginner days here, but tbh I have terrible memory lol ! -
I wonder
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Eggaly:
I think you're an interesting person, a little serious and closed off in my experience but that's not a negative trait at all, and I dont mean it in a negative way. There was one time I made a joke in the discord and I worried that you took it as a serious remark and I've been worried about that ever since 😠so in case you remember that, I apologise if i was rude. And if you don't remember it, then I still apologise.
I've never really had the chance to know you very well, but ik we have some common interests and that you're a likeable person. I think sometimes you're quick to defend your friends or people you care about which is understandable to want to protect and fight for those we care about, but I think sometimes you've done that at least in the past, when maybe the people you were defending were perhaps in the wrong. I haven't seen that at all recently though, so I can only assume you've grown more.
I worry that sometimes that you lack self esteem too, and again like I said to Ello, I feel you deserve that kindness from yourself and if it's true and you do lack that confidence, I can only hope that that aspect of yourself will change one day, and you'll be able to find that confidence and love within yourself.
I think you've very mature, and I honestly I find what you have to say quite interesting. Honestly I'm not sure if you like me or not lol, but I appreciate your presence on this site and I think you're sweet and quite mature -
Omg sorry guys I dont mean for some of these to be so long. I promise if u get one that's short af or long af it's not on purpose or because of any specific reason. I just forget how much or how little I'm typing ðŸ˜
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Thats so sweet mei, thank you. I always love talking with you and ive always respected you. Im not sure when we met but it was ages ago, im glad we did
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We should totally talk more often :)
I'm pretty lousy at responding sometimes but your company is always welcomed
I'm glad I met u too as well :) -
can i ask how i’ve changed or what has influenced your opinion of me?
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Sure I dont mind you asking at all !!
Over quite a few months, from right back like last year sometime, I've seen behaviour from you in regards to how you treat those around you that made me feel cautious and unsure of you. The way you've responded to people sometimes and handled situations. Which is where I have seen behaviour I would perceive as sometimes mean, snappy and manipulative. Obviously I only know one side to all of these situations and I can only ever judge from my perspective so its impossible for me to fully understand what's going on in your head. But it was multiple moments like these that I saw play out, that really tested my perception on you and made me feel quite cautious being around you, as well as changed my opinions on you -
Okay
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I used to look up to you BIG TIME and honestly I still do. You've always been so cool imo and I was always like 'man I wish I could be his friend ):' LOL
But shoving aside my embarrassing admiration I had for you when I was younger, which we won't bring up again,
You're so funny and intelligent. You're always such a pleasure to talk to and be around. I'm thankful for any advice you give to me. And I said it to bread but I'll say it again, you two have such a strong relationship!! I can tell you both care deeply for one another.
I think you're wise and caring, but perhaps a little blunt at times but honestly I've been told I'm blunt too so that's nothing I can really criticize or I'd be a hypocrite. I was always unsure if you liked me or not tbh and you used to intimidate me.
But honestly I really respect and admire you. I'm thankful that I'm able to have met you. And I really like ur humour ur a funny guy and u make me laugh tbh. I think you're protective of your friends and you always seem to offer good advice and support. You're a positive influence honestly -
okie ty
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