criticize me
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Thread Topic: criticize me
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i’d like to take this very seriously. as you know, i’ve had a few freak incidents, and currently in the process of trying to get help.
anything you believe to be abnormal in my behavior, please inform me.
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Sometimes I feel a little hurt around you, or like kinda hesitated to talk to you.
Not sure why, but it’s weird to me and idk what to do abt it.
Sometimes when you talk to people, you sound uninterested occasionally too
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I think one of the toxic things you do is attack others at the sight of conflict. And when I say attack, I mean you purposefully bring up something that would trigger them or hurt their feelings in an attempt to get them to back off. While it's okay to want to back out of conflict if you aren't in the mood to handle it, it's not okay to use people's pasts or insecurities against them to act like an upper dog.
That makes me personally too scared to talk to you much. I'm concerned that if I say the wrong thing, you might try to hurt me. -
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I tried to put it into words. But Jill’s better at explaining stuff that I am -
i never purposely try to hurt anyone. could you explain further please?
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Well, an example that comes to mind is that you immediately brought up my past with someone else on here when you felt threatened. It had nothing to do with the argument at hand, and it set me off almost immediately.
Another one that comes to mind is that when we had a disagreement earlier this year (I want to say a few months ago), you almost immediately started to insult me instead of trying to discuss the predicament. You seem quick to insult if you think that a conversation is going to go south, I guess? -
It might just be natural. Not that long ago I was really trying to push myself to talk to you more, but I was a little scared.
I’m not trying to sound selfish in the least but I feel like you bring up ‘jealously’ a lot. Like when you said-
Imagine complaining when you live in a million dollar house
That was awhile back, but I was honestly really hurt by that. Because I can’t control my parent’s income, and I still have the right to complain about things -
*continuing cuz I accidentally pressed submit*
I still have the right to complain about things, even though I may be better off or whatever the heck the reason is.
And the few times I’ve talked to you through Discord about things like that, I didn’t feel like you responses were very constructive. You simply said ‘Be grateful.’ -
I’m also scared to get on your bad side, because as Dark said you bring up things that don’t necessarily have any meaning towards the subject and are seriously made to hurt someone into ‘backing off’.
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okay, i understand. thank you. i usually don’t act that way, but to be honest, on the internet, i feel like i can be more reckless and careless because maybe i felt like whatever i said wouldn’t have consequences, even though it does. i will definitely work on that. i think i said those things as a way to “comeback” because i always feel so small in arguments. i’m glad i know why i do this. it helps me to improve myself. thank you so much.
i actually went through our messages and this is what i said to you.
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too cute
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Np, but I feel like you mostly talked about yourself instead of telling me (what I know now)-
“It’s fine to complain about your life, but know that you don’t have it as bad as some people” -
oh, i was trying to provide an anecdote to make it more simple to understand. sorry then.
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Oh.
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