Cats17's thread
- Locked by axelbeans on Dec 5, '20 11:42amReason: request =^-^=
Thread Topic: Cats17's thread
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How to Calm Down
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I know exactly what belligerent means.
Someone says or does something and you completely blow up at them! You're taking everything way too personally. You attack people when they've done absolutely nothing wrong, and won't listen to reason. You play the victim and blame us for everything.
You said that you were trying to improve yourself, but frankly, I'm not seeing it. You're exactly how you were a few months ago. -
I'm pretty sure I am me, haha. LordDark is my chatting account, and this is my moderator account. I try to only post "serious" messages on this account.
I'll use the special box for this post, just as proof!Moderator -
anyway, I strongly encourage you to listen to the posts above mine
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Someone says or does something and you completely blow up at them! You're taking everything way too personally. You attack people when they've done absolutely nothing wrong, and won't listen to reason. You play the victim and blame us for everything.
You said that you were trying to improve yourself, but frankly, I'm not seeing it. You're exactly how you were a few months ago.
Wow, that's not insulting at all.
Yep, I know two new additions to the list. Well maybe just one, I'm not going to restrict a mod. -
Nah make it two. At 13/14/however old you are, you should understand that blowing up at people will never get you your way.
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Criticism and insulting are TWO DIFFERENT things.
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Current List
Safe:
Eclipsestar228
WoF_Deathbringer
SprinkledSpice
phoenix_pharaoh
TheColdestSun
Mused Jade
Faceless Knight
PointlessDreams
violagal12
FaeSoulGirl
ChamomileDream
ello
LordDark
GuardianOfDark
TheShadowDrago2
snowflake star61
Stardust1
Acrimony
Le1f
Shattered Glass
Ann Marie
therealminime
Emolady23456
NitroTails2
d_h
CaptainMop
Sailor Jupiter33
DarkIs TheCat
flowerdoodle07
Typical Normie
Gacha_Summer
quizmaster12345
zilla
LittleApple
The Actual Boss
DaughterOfApollo
Br0wnieBunny
Keyboard
Spoon
Burning Flame
Eggaly
DarkWolfie
In Between:
The Geek
WowCrazyInsane
Restricted:
bb45
Jayfeather310
Paige_
dragonsfire -
Nu I'm not restricting Dark, or you either
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What is the point of that list? Do you intend to attempt to control the entire userbase and your friends? There is only so much you can do on a public forum.
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Uh, keeping users I don't want in my thread out?
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Okay then:
You really do need to work on your response to being upset. I understand that that can be difficult, in fact I probably understand better than most people- I have a mental disorder that makes my emotions feel a thousand times stronger than most people's. And when I'm upset, it's very difficult for me to handle those feelings, and I often want to lash out.
But that it's an excuse. We don't control our emotions, but we DO control our actions. The internet is a great place to practice control! Maybe try typing what you WANT to say, take a few deep breaths and erase it. -
Ha. But some people deserve it.
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Then, don't you deserve the same treatment? Treat others how you expect to be treated.
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They can treat me the same way. It's not as unexpected as you would think. I'm used to not being wanted. I'm used to being ignored. I'm used to having no friends, because that's how the first 12 years of my damned life was!!
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