Hello hello!
- Locked by Dark22978 on May 31, '20 10:29amReason: Owner's request.
Thread Topic: Hello hello!
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Hi there 👋
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How are you doing?
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I'm okay, I think. I have a headache and I just woke up.
How are you doing? -
Not so great.
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Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that! What's wrong?
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Well, this is something I don't want to draw attention to. I won't name any names either.
I'm kind of at a loss with what I feel about someone. I want to help them, and the best thing for them is to be their friend. I'm really trying to pretend I don't feel more than that, and they know this, but it's really hard and it really hurts. I don't want to push any of my feelings off onto them, though, so I'm trying not to talk about it to them. -
Having feelings for someone that doesn't return them really sucks.. But I do agree that the best thing you can do for them is being their friend; forced relationships do not last, and they can cause bad feelings for each other. Which is something you do NOT want. As long as you guys remain friends, make sure you show them that you value that friendship! Even if it means you have to set your feelings aside.
I think your situation is just one of those things that will heal over time. There isn't much to do about it. I'm confident that you will move on and find someone who can return those feelings. 💖
But don't make your whole life about having a relationship. You're young. If a solid, mature relationship comes your way, then accept it, but don't be looking for it all the time. There's so much more to life than dating. (This is coming from someone who has never been on a physical date, held hands, kissed someone, etc. and is currently 18.) -
Wow. I wouldn't have guessed that you're only 18. You seem so much older.
Thank you for the advice. -
Ahaha, I get that a lot. But if you've ever seen my outbursts or arguments with people on here, I think you'd see where I still lack maturity and self control. 😅 It's all a big work in progress.
You're welcome! Btw, it's okay to be sad about the situation. I've been there, and it hurts. I grieved first months. I just don't want you to let it ruin your life or make you feel bad about yourself. -
*for months, oops
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you precious sunflower children
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Im picturing children with sunflowers for heads now
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🌻
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Wait a second ðŸ˜ðŸ˜‚ that's not what I meant!
That's one of my favorite flower emojis -
That's what came to my mind lmao
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