I need your opinion.
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Thread Topic: I need your opinion.
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I have a scenario for everyone to answer. I want honest opinions. You have a friend called A. You've known A for years and after all that time, you have learned firsthand that A is kinda shady, ditches you, and makes you feel left out. They don't intentionally mean to be that way but it just happens, tho you still like them.
You have two other friends named B and C. You don't know B that well at all but they seem okay.
Friend B is throwing a party. A party that could be toxic, considering drugs, alcohol, and strangers that you don't know will be there. Not to mention, it's in the middle of the woods.
You doubt going due to the fact that you don't want to involve yourself with that sort of stuff. Friend B doesn't say anything, but they tell you that if you change your mind, you can come. It's also noted that Friend B states they will be too busy at the party to be around you.
You ask Friend C for their opinion. Friend C says they aren't going because the whole idea seems bad. So, they are out of the picture.
You completely agree with Friend C.
Friend A thinks that is uncool and begs you to come. They use the excuse that they don't want to be left out (which, you know is a lie cause A has a lot of friends coming) and that you should come to save that.
You decline, but Friend A continues begging and they make a promise that if you will go, they will watch over you. That promise is unsure or not, you know that A has ditched you before but you also know that A has been there too.
Does this make A toxic? (Due to the fact that a friend wouldn't beg you to come to an environment that you know could be bad) or does this make A a good friend because they promise that they will watch over you in tough times? -
that's really confusing, I'm sorry. I can't explain any other way but if you ask questions, I'll answer.
Also, this isn't about me. -
A is a c---
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I don't think that they're toxic, but in this situation, they're being super pushy
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Well one thing is for sure. DO NOT GO TO THE PARTY
Also A is only offering to watch over you so you come, because they believe if their friends think your lame their friends will take it out on them. So A's friend's are toxic, A is just kinda caught in a crossfire. -
Thank you for your opinions ^^
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