Jauz and Pegboard Nerds
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Thread Topic: Jauz and Pegboard Nerds
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I'm glad. I ask because I saw your earlier post/thread.
If you ever think you need to talk about it, I'm around (usually) so feel free to use me as a rambling buddy -
I figured, I don't feel super guilty but I have this small part of me feeling like its completely my fault
But that's my job D: -
It's not really your fault. You both didn't bond well, and I'm sure that mixing that with whatever else is happening in his mind just kind of f---ed with him to the point where they had to put him on suicide watch. Not to mention, I'm sure you both can get a chance to talk once he's... In a safer mood (?) and that might help calm that guilt.
Pfft, it goes both ways, then. -
my parents told me that it wasn't my fault at all, and that he contributed to our s---ty relationship just as much as i did, and honestly ive never had anyone close to me even attempt it, and ive been fortunate enough not to and now that something like it has even happened, i really dont know what to feel. I just really want to talk to him, but hes going through a "mormon therapy session" right now so i figure i should wait until after.
Better then stewing in my thoughts alone -
I know very little about the Mormon religion, but I hope that the therapy they're putting him through isn't making it worse..? I'm doubtful that it will, but sometimes they use religion in interesting ways.
I recently found out someone in my family that was close to me has considered the act. Which, kind of eased my own troubles, because I've had those thoughts wander in and out of my mind. And, of course, I've attended funerals to close family members that chose to end their lives. It's not a happy subject, but... Just the fact you're able to be there "for him," stopping him before the act, is more than a great start.
I don't know how it will go for you, but I'm going to tell you right now that he might resent those who stopped him. It's a common reaction for people who thought dying would be the answer to their problems. That, or, he'll be grateful that people cared enough to stop him. I don't know his personality well, so I'm not sure which way he's going to go. But just keep that in mind when you do talk to him, if you're able to. -
Its not as forced as you might think, its more of a way for our bishop to find about the problem and help the person through it. I myself went to him for some personal problems im not gonna put on here, but the counseling he gave me really helped me and i was shocked that it effected me at all.
if you want to know more about mormonism hmu
I just got home from school when i found out what had happened, so I dont really know the whole story of what exactly happened, but i knew something had happened because of this one teacher that we both have and some of his friends.
Thnak you for being the one person who has actually tried to help me with something going on in my life. -
now how am i going to do this
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Ahh, alright. Again, I'm oblivious to religions. I'm glad that they were able to help you, and I hope the same goes for your brother. I'd be more than happy to learn about your religion, omg. I'm an atheist myself, but I find joy in learning about what others believe in. Plus, it's interesting to see how one religion stemmed from another, what god(s) are worshiped, etc.
Oh dear. So this is all something that happened relatively fast?
no problem, man. I don't always catch what's going on in peoples' lives but I try to be there. -
I see
Yeah it was actually kind of stressful -
noooooo its not
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Starting to Gert a major headache
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Get
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Oh god
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This really f---ing hurts
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earl grey man
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