dark gives horrible advice
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Thread Topic: dark gives horrible advice
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*lays across table*
who needs advice -
DARKIPOO
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where is your emoji son
and wat do u need advice on
nicknaming? :P -
squints at users not coming in here
if I say their names will they come? -
Stop picking on newbs, you toasted me.
😎
There's your emoji
One of my friends, we'll call her K. So I was out for 5 days, so went to go see them at break, and K hugged me and started crying. Something was wrong, I could tell. The day after I invited her to my house. I never saw her so giggly. The next day, she asked when she can come over again. We had band, and because I was making up work all day, I was late. When I came in she hugged me so tight. We were going out because she was teaching me how to play percussion. But the band teacher said they need her at band practice, she looked so upset she was gonna cry. Today, I invited some of my friends to the place I was making up work, I was told we could have lunch there, and there was spinny chairs. I asked her if she wanted to go, and she said "I'll go because you're going," What's wrong with her? I am a literal spawn of Satan. She was never this clingy, she used to rarely hang out with me. -
i want to pick on everyonnnne
:D
Well, it's possible that you helped K get over what was wrong in their life. Them being clingy is their way of giving you thanks, or telling you that they are grateful. However, it's also possible they're pretending to be happy? Or that they're starting to become obsessed with you? Maybe she's gay idek -
No dark
I'm just a baby. D:
She's still not okay, however. I can tell. -
i need advice
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and i'm your mother
it's my duty to pick on u
If you think she can handle it, try asking her what's wrong. DON'T pry into her life, and say, "tell me what's wrong, let me know, blah blah blah." Merely ask if she's doing ok physically/mentally, remind her that you're there to listen to her, and also let her know that even if she doesn't want to talk about it to you that she should tell someone. Stress, depression, and all of the negative emotions get drawn out when you hold something in and pretend you're fine. Most of the times, the person who is the nicest is the one going through the most troubles. And, a lot of people will feel better if you ask them what's wrong or let them know that you can tell. It lets them know you, as their friend, understand them on a deeper level. It makes them realize they aren't alone. At least, that's how I feel. I've never had someone ask me if I'm ok until after I'm physically crying/frowning/silent, and I often feel like if someone noticed before then, I might have had a chance to let go of the issue way earlier. However, it's different for everyone, so do what you think is best for her/her personality. -
On what?
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How to live life
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Waoit what?
Thanks m8 -
To be honest, there isn't a defined way on how to live life. Life, though hard and giving, is a mysterious thing. Everyone has a different purpose, different dreams, different habits, different goals. The life someone leads might not ever be lead the exact same way again, because it's unique to the person.
However, I think it's best to life your life as happy as you can. Don't worry about the little things. You only have years to be here, and you should always make every moment count. Even if there are bad people out there, treat them nicely. Make them have a good day. Because living happy means you've at least enjoyed whatever life you had until the end. Also, make sure to do what YOU want to do. There aren't many second chances. Don't waste your time becoming what your family or friends tell you to become. Do whatever you want and be whoever you want. -
You heard me, my child.
No problem. I hope that all gets resolved soon.
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