private chatting thread 2.0
- Locked by Br0wnieBunny on Dec 31, '16 11:27pmReason: abandoning this thread and remaking for the new year! hehe
Thread Topic: private chatting thread 2.0
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yeah :( there's someone i'm friends with and they're mentally ill and i want to help them and they're venting about how their "friends" are all ganging up on them
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the friends basically abandoned my friend, and are now calling my friend abusive for getting upset and venting about it. that's not abusive tho?? and it's really upsetting me how lightly they're using the term
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i don't know much besides what they're telling me because i have no direct involvement, but i'd rather trust a friend i like to tell me the truth instead of people who hate them?
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i'm trying to click around and scrounge up what info is in the public and my friend seems to be telling the truth so far..
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idk. i'm not completely certain if my friend is lying or not but i'm just gonna do my best to comfort them and be there for them right now
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huh.
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wait.
so u ain't bringin home dinner.... unless i go to a haunted house with you?
bruh you know i'm terrified of those... y u gotta make me go if i want to eat??
all we got here is cereal and ramen noodles b---- just bring me something to EAT -
bruhhhhhh
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we were watching a dr. phil episode about a transgender daughter and her mom being not so supportive and half way through my mom paused it and asked "do you want to change your gender?" and i felt really uncomfortable telling her about me being nonbinary. i mean she had a little bit of an idea but not the details of it so much, and i sorta murmured "not to a boy... at least" and then she nodded and played the episode again and i don't know how to feel about it
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i've been looking into chest binders and i think i might want one for those agender days haha
but... i'm kind of scared to ask my mom about it -
ever since she yelled at me and told me how she really felt about me being gay and possibly transgender, i felt really uncomfortable and not safe about talking about it with her
she always complains about me talking about how i like girls so much, and i feel like the only one truly supporting me in this house fully is my sister -
my sister has been so helpful and supportive of me and even goes to gsa with me sometimes, i'm really grateful for that
but i feel like my mom is a bit iffy about it. and i dont feel like she really supports me... i don't know about my brother either -
see, my dad was homophobic and transphobic and i feel like his beliefs really rubbed off on my mom after he died. since she loves and misses him so much she always thinks how my dad would, and always says things like "would your dad like that?" when me and my siblings do something wrong
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i feel like she applies that to my identity too and because of my dad's beliefs i was never able to come out seriously to him before he died. i told him i might be bisexual when i was 12 maybe, and he shrugged it off and when i asked him if he supports me, he sighed and seemed really disappointed
thinking about it makes me want to cry -
i'm scared of my mom in that sense. i'm scared of her not supporting me, i'm scared of her being ashamed of her child who is different from everyone else
my sister and brother are both cis and straight and then there's just me. just. the disappointment
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