Point out my every flaw please~
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Thread Topic: Point out my every flaw please~
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Well everyone has flaws and everyone has something that makes them shine. Be with people who bring out the things that make you shine. Focusing on your flaws can sometimes stop you from being who you want to be.)
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being overweight can leave health issues and complications in the future and can also cause depression and many other trails of mental instability or disorders
You aren't even overweight or "fat". Depending on your height, which you seem pretty small, you seem like you have a reasonable to correctly just weight. But it's all up to you if you want to nourish your body with care if you want to exercise, eat the right nutritional diet such as organic or non-GMO items or products, and keep your body in positive shape. I don't want to be overly-cheesy like Brownie was, but you're young and you have just as much potential and flaws like everybody else. It's definitely okay to review them and see what you can compromise out of them to be a better person and open a new leaf for yourself. -
Thanks.
But there are so many people at my school who want nothing to do with me, hate me or remind me that I'm overweight.
I guess I could try finding someone who doesn't care about that.
I just don't know anymore. -
One of the best things you can do for yourself is not ask for insults or things like that. Just talk any problems out with your friends. What I did (which you may not may not want to do) is I posted asking for a list of traits about me people would like for me to fix. Such as not responding right away, focusing on only one person, ect. I worked on them, and I still am, but I made sure to ask my friends what they wanted of me. Those who didn't like me still... I didn't keep them. And if your friends are the ones making you ask for insults, well.. They aren't your friends. Friends should not make you feel inferior. You should not feel bad about yourself or your choices. If they are causing you those emotions, they're nothing but toxicity that you MUST cut out of your life. If you're like me and super forgiving, I know it's hard. You want to see the best in everyone. You love people too much to let go. But when they are hurting you, emotionally or physically, they really aren't right for you.
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They don't accept me as a boy and they've been telling me that I need to lose weight because no one wants to be friends with a Fat girl and I looked better while I was Anorexic.
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They aren't your friends. If they can't respect your gender and are insulting you for your weight, they aren't your friends. Please, for your own sake, drop them.
I'm going to link you to a site that allows you to check your BMI. Please do take the time to check it and find out if you're actually overweight or if they're just being dicks because you're at a healthy stance now. -
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Thank you. I really regret purging earlier, I now realise that I'm not overweight at all.
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I know it's hard understanding your weight. Being underweight and then changing to be at a healthy weight can be a real struggle. You're so used to thinking that small is better. But it really isn't. I'm underweight right now and I'm working to gain enough to be healthy. I'll miss my friends saying "HOLY f--- YOU'RE LIGHT" and carrying me places, but being underweight or overweight is bad on your health. I hope that you can tell them that you're perfectly fine the way you are now that you know.
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