Hi! I need relationship advice.
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Thread Topic: Hi! I need relationship advice.
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Ash_QwQ NewbieI need it quickly. I understand it's in the wrong forum.
I have a close friend who I've known for about eight years. She's like my sister. She recently started dating someone really amazing. My best friend never talks to her, so she turns to me for advice. She (very recently; 10 minutes ago) told me that she broke up with my best friend and wanted to date me. I have a major crush on her, but I don't want to hurt my best friend.
Sorry to seem like an attention whore.
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The one question you have to ask yourself is this: Which relationship do you value more- your friendship, or a possible relationship? You have to know which person is more important to you. If you know your best friend very well, and you think that your friendship will remain stable if you date that other chick, then go for the relationship. You might end up being a better pair. However, if you think your best friend will be hurt, and you don't really love the chick, then don't go for it. Politely decline. It seems a bit weird how they broke up and then went for you, considering your ties with your friend. And they moved on quite fast- they might not be ready for a serious relationship.
Your best bet might be to ask that chick that asked you out for some time to think. You can either decide it for yourself or maybe even ask your friend about it. -
Please note that I'm no dating expert and you might be better off with your own devices... I just figured I'd try to help before I turned in for bed.
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Ash_QwQ NewbieAlright! That makes perfect sense, and I completely understand. Thank you so much for taking time out to help me.
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