I need help.
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Thread Topic: I need help.
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My 11y/o sister has been acting like a total---- yeah. She's been acting up and she has been giving everyone in the house this nasty attitude. She also hasn't been honest. We don't trust her anymore. I blame her peers/friends. I don't think they are the right friends for her. They are a bad influence for her. Is there anything I could do?
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Hey, that sounds like my 8y/o sister's attitude.
But as a fellow older sibling, I can recommend a few things. First off, try to talk to her a bit and try to figure out if the attitude is just a mood, or an actual personality change. If it's the latter, then try to find the cause. It may be her friends as you suggested, but it might be something else.
The main thing that I can say though, is that you should try to talk to her more often to get closer to her. Sometimes that does the trick as well.
I'm not the greatest at giving advice, but I tried. It was concerning a younger sibling so I had to try to help. I have three younger siblings after all. ^-^' -
I'm pretty sure it's a personality change. She gets in trouble in school now and she never have gotten in trouble in the past. But I'll see if it's something else.
I don't think I could ever get closer to her like I am with my older sister. She is secretive now and it's hard to get close to someone who won't tell you anything. Plus, I think she prefers to keep her distance. She would rather chat with her friends than any of us. My older sister even tried talking to her, but she refuses to tell us anything about her life. We feel like she's hiding something.
I'm not well with younger siblings xD -
She's 11, and she has the attitude of a 16 year old? How pathetic.
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Dark: Try talking to her about her friends or what's up. That's what I do when my sister acts like a little jerk.
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Alright. It's kind of like confirmation, you could say.
Ah... I know what you mean. The only thing I can say to that is take the small chances you get to make small talk. It might be hard, but it gets slightly easier over time.
I'm usually not either. They're pains. But they're still younger siblings. XD -
It's disappointing, I know. ._.
I can try. -
I will. Thank you.
Yeah. xD sometimes I forget that they are and I get so mean. :P -
Dark: I'm sure she'll talk to you if she idolizes you a bit.
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No problem. Older siblings must stick together. It's the only way to stay sane.
Please, I don't remember a day where I don't yell at my siblings at least once. XP -
...I'm the youngest out of seven kids. Seven. So yeah. I can't help.
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that would never haaaapppeeen. ;n;
Ye. :P
Jaja, yess. They can get wild. xD
Awe, anri-san. xD you're the babyyy.
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